Ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i nā mea a pau, no laila e hoʻolohe wale i nā mea i hoʻomanaʻoʻia a hoʻohuli i kekahi mau manaʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ka moeʻuhane e like me ke kūʻaiʻana, nā kiko'ī kūponoʻole, a pēlā aku, a ma kēia hihia ua mālamaʻia lākou. Inā lākou i kahiko aʻaʻohe kumu e hopohopo ai (e like paha, ma kahakai),ʻaʻohe pono e wehewehe iā lākou i keʻano o keʻano. ʻO nā mea nui a me nā hiʻona e hiki ai ke hoʻomanaʻo,ʻo kaʻoi aku o ka pololei e hiki ke wehewehe i kahi moe.
He aha nāʻano o nā pantena?
Ma muli o nā manaʻo momona i moe, hiki ke weheweheʻia ka hiamoe ma nāʻano likeʻole. No laila, no ka mea, i kaʻikeʻana ma ka moeʻuhane i ke aloha o ka wahine - i kahi moe koloheʻana, a me ka wahine - i keʻano o ka nahenahe,ʻo ka hoʻonuiʻana i nā makemake o ka mea aloha.
Inā he hou a nani ka pilau, hōʻike i nā loli maikaʻi i loko o ka pilina ola, a inā heʻelemakule a he lepo - i nā lono maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi o ka inoa.
ʻO ke kaikamahine eʻike i ka moe a ke kanaka i ka moeʻuhane, iʻaʻahuʻia e kahi malihini -ʻo ia hoʻi ka loaʻaʻana o ka hōʻailona mai ke kino e makemake nei i ke aloha. Eia kekahi, ua hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i ka pani nui loa a hōʻikeʻia he pono ke hāʻawi aku i kekahi e like meʻoe.
Ke ho'ākākaʻana i nā kiko'ī o ka moeʻuhane
Inā moe ka nanea me he mea lole lole, i hoʻokomoʻia i loko o kahi pīpī , eia keʻano he pāʻina hauʻoli i mua, a laila he mea hilahila. ʻO ka lama māmā - he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia, akāʻo ka pōʻeleʻele e'ōlelo ana ma ke ala i kāu pahuhopu e kali anaʻoe no nā pilikia.
ʻO ka kūʻaiʻana i ka waiwai nui i ka moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuniʻia e kekahi mea mai kahi kokoke aku, a hiki i ka hapalua a me nā hoaaloha ke kānalua. Ināʻoe eʻimi ana i kāu mea e moe nei i loko o ka moeʻuhane, akāʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa iā lākou, aia kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi i mua.
Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe i nā mea makaʻuʻole,'ōleloʻo ia i ka hilahila, hilahila. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kēlā moeʻuhane, e ho'āʻo e hōʻole i nā hana pilihua. ʻIke i loko o ka hiamoe o ka pilauhi, pono pono ke kiaʻi: hiki i kēia moe keʻike i ka hōʻikeʻana i kāu mau mea huna a me kahi mauʻano kūponoʻole.