ʻO ka hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻana he wahi laʻa wale nō ia, e hele pū ana me kahi hoʻomana sacramentpule, a no laila e lilo i mea mahalo loa i mea e ola ai nā mea a pau. Ma kēiaʻano, he mea maʻamau ka hāʻawiʻana i ka hoʻohuiʻana i ka meleʻana . I kēia mau lā, nui ka poʻe e hoʻomanaʻo ana i nā kuʻuna kahiko, akā, loaʻa nui iā lākou kekahi mea pono.
He aha kā lākou e hāʻawi aku ai i kahi akuason a akua akua paha no ka hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana?
Inā he malihiniʻoe, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke koho i kekahi makana o kēlāʻano kēiaʻano, akāʻo ka nīnau no nā mea a ke akua wahine i hāʻawi ai i ka bapetizoʻana e hoʻoponoponoʻia e nā rula o ka hale pule. Eia naʻe, eia nā koho hiki ke kohoʻia:
- Hāʻawi nā kupuna wahine i ke keʻa i hoʻolaʻaʻia no ka pēpē. ʻO ke kūpono,ʻo ia kaʻaoʻao like e hele ai me kahi kanaka i kona ola a pau. ʻO ia ke kumu i nui ai nā mākua, iʻole e hoʻonāukiuki i kahi makuakāne ma kahi haʻawina kūʻai, loaʻa iā lākou kahi kele gula. Eia naʻe, inā makemakeʻia ke kea i ke kālā a iʻole ke kumulāʻau, hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i ka makua. ʻO kahi mea pono e hoʻomanaʻoʻia ai ka pono e kūkākūkā i kēlā makana me kaʻohana o ka pēpē i mua.
- ʻO kahi moʻomeheu a nā akuaparents he pahu. He hana kuʻuna maʻamau ia e lawelawe ana he diaper ma hope o ka hana.
- He aha ka mea nui e pili ana i ka hāʻawiʻana i ke kaikamahine i kahi hoʻomaʻemaʻeʻana? Kāhiko! E hāʻawiʻia ke keikikāne i kahi pāpale. ʻO ke kūpono, pono ia he mea homepun, akā ināʻo kaʻoihana ma ke keʻa o ka paʻakikī - hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i ka makana i loko o ka hale kūʻai.
- ʻO kekahi kumu kuʻuna e hāʻawi i kahi puna kālā. He mea koʻikoʻi kēia mea kila i ka poʻe Orthodox, no laila, hoʻolakoʻia kēlā makana i kēlā me kēia ola.
ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia ka nānāʻana i ka maikaʻi a me ka lōʻihi. ʻO nā mea a pau āu e hāʻawi ai, e hoʻokōʻo ia i kahi Kristiano'ōpio me ia ma ke ola. Aʻo ka pākū, kahi i'ōwiliʻia ai ke keiki, e holoiʻia i ka wai hemolele, e manaʻoʻia he lāʻau lapaʻau, e pili ana i nā mea e pono ai i ke ola o kekahi kanaka.
Hāʻawi lākou i ke kālā no ka bapetizoʻana?
Ma keʻano he mea nui, makemake nui nā malihini i mua i mua o ko lākou mau mākua, he aha ka makana no ka pēpē i kēia manawa ka mea nui loa. Loaʻa kekahi i kahi lole, mahana mahana a me nā kāmaʻa, kekahi - mea pāʻani, nāʻano mea liʻiliʻi kūpono.
Inā he laʻana, nā mākua o kahi keiki e hoʻolako i kahi keiki, pono kūpono eʻike inā maikaʻi ka hāʻawiʻana i kekahi makana i ke kālā like. ʻAʻole kēia he helena kuʻuna maʻamau, akā he hana.
He aha nā mea a ka poʻe malihini e hāʻawi ai i ka kaikamahine christening?
ʻO nā mākua (a maʻole paha o kekahi o lākou) a me nā kūpuna e pono e lilo i mau Karistiano Orthodox, akā, no ka liloʻana o nā mea i koe o ka hale pule,ʻaʻole lākou e koi. ʻO ia ke kumu e ulu pinepine ai nā hoaaloha pili a me nā hoahānau no kēiaʻahaʻaina a ka hoʻolaunaʻana i kēia manawa kūikawā me lākou. Inā heʻano maʻalahi nā mākua, aʻaʻole i "kauoha" i nā kiko'ī kūikawā, pono e hāʻawi iā lākou i kā lākou koho, e hakakā ana e makemakeʻoe e hana i ka mea pono.
No laila, he aha kāu mea e mōhai aku ai:
- ʻO nāʻano pāʻani holoʻokoʻa. Pono lākou no ke keiki i nā makahiki a pau,ʻo ka mea nui ke koho i kahi mea eʻoluʻolu loa i nā pahuhuna.
- ʻO ka puke me nā'ōlelo aʻo no ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i nā keiki. ʻAʻole nā mākua a pau i hānai i nā keiki i loko o ka naʻau - e ho'āʻo kekahi e hana ia "i kaʻepekema". ʻO kahi alakaʻi maikaʻi e hāʻawiʻia i makana maikaʻi no kēlāʻohana.
- Ka Baibala Keiki. Hāʻawi pinepineʻia e nā kūpuna,
e ho'āʻo eʻimi i nā mākua o ka pēpē,ʻaʻole iʻae kekahi iā lākou i kēlā puke i makana. - ʻO nā mea maikaʻi loa i hāʻawiʻia - he meaʻala a me kahi kiʻi pilikino o ka haipule. E mahalo nuiʻia kēia mau makana i loko o kaʻohana e mālama pono i nā kānāwai o ka hale pule.
- ʻO nā keiki no ka'ōpiopio kekahi o nā makana nui a pinepine. Ke ulu wikiwiki nei nā keiki, a he nui nāʻohana e makemake i kā lākou mau lako. Nā lole a me nāʻaʻahu, a me nā meaʻaʻahu.
Eia kekahi, hāʻawiʻia nā mākua i nā makana : nā pua no ka makuahine'ōpio, nā mea hoʻomanaʻo, nā leʻaleʻa, nā mele no nā kiʻi a me nā mea'ē aʻe - no ka pope.