ʻOiai paha, he mea paʻakikī ke kaʻawaleʻana o kēlā me kēia kanaka ma ke ola, a ma hope iho,ʻaʻole e lōʻihi loa kahi mea aloha ma waho o kona poʻo. ʻAʻole waleʻo ia e haʻalele i kona mau manaʻo, akā, uaʻikeʻia hoʻi ma nā moeʻuhane. I kēlā mauʻano, he nui ka poʻe e noʻonoʻo nei i ke kumu o ke moeʻana o kekahi mea mua ma mua i ka moeʻuhane a pehea keʻano? I kekahi mau kumu, he hōʻailona wale nō kēia o ka pilikia iʻikeʻia, a i kekahi manawa uaʻikeʻia nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane a ka mea aloha mua?
Aia kekahiʻike e pili ana nā moeʻuhane i nā mea iʻikeʻoleʻia, a me ka hoʻoikaika ponoʻana e hiki ai i kekahi ke hoʻomaopopo iā ia iho. Ua hoʻomaopopo nā kānakaʻepekema ma hope o nā ho'āʻoʻana i ka wā e hui pū ai nā kaikamāhine me nā kāne, he pono ka moeʻana o nā hoa mua. 'Ōlelo nā kānaka kālaiʻike he mea nui ke nānāʻana i nā moe e pili ana i ke aloha mua i kahi hōʻailona he mea hōʻailonaʻo ia e hoʻomanaʻo a makemake mau wale pahaʻo ia wale nō kahiʻae kūpono aʻo ka mea i loko o ka pilikia o ka wahine. 'Ōlelo nā kaumāmā inā i hoʻonuanu ka naʻau, e nalowale nā moe.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka poʻe kilokilo, pehea ka moe o ke aloha mua?
Nui nāʻano ho'ākāka likeʻole o ia mau moeʻuhane, e kōkua ana e aʻo e pili ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻO kaʻike pinepineʻana o nā hoa hana mua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike anaʻaʻole nā mea i hanaʻia i ka wā ma mua i hala i ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahi ola hou. Inā ma nā hihiʻo o ka pō, ua haʻalele hou ke kaikamahine me ke aloha punahele - he hana maʻalahi kēia no kaʻike hou. ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi i hakakā ai he hōʻailona maikaʻi, e hōʻike ana i nā loli maikaʻi i kou ola pono'ī.
He mea maikaʻi eʻike i keʻano o ia mau moeʻuhane o ka honiʻana me kahi mea aloha. ʻO kēlā manaʻo,ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e kahaha nui auaneʻiʻoe no ka hopena o ka hopena. Hana i ke aloha ma ka moeʻuhane me ke kuhi