ʻO ke kumu o ka moekolohe,ʻo ia paha ka manawa, aʻo ka mea nui i kūkākūkāʻia,ʻaʻohe meaʻokoʻa e pili ana - he meaʻeha loa ia. ʻAʻole maopopo i ka makemake o nā kānaka (keʻano o kēia mau wāhine) he mau mea likeʻole lākou a pau i kauʻia ma luna o nā papahana a hoʻonoho i nā hae no kēlā me kēia meaʻeha i ka wā o ka moe kolohe. ʻO kekahi o nā nīnau hoʻopiʻi nuiʻia penei: "Pehea ka lōʻihi o ka moeʻana me ke kane a me ka wahine"? ʻO ka strangeness o kēia paʻiʻana he hikiʻole ke hoʻohui i nā hiʻohiʻona o ke kanaka i kēlā me kēia kūlana, no ka mea,ʻo ka nānāʻana i ka wahine wale nō ma ka manaʻo o ka pono no ka physiological kūponoʻole, no ka mea,ʻo ka holomua o kēia hana a me ka pōmaikaʻi mai ia mea e pili ana i nāʻano likeʻole. Akā, inā e hoʻopā waleʻoe i kaʻaoʻao kino o ka hoʻopukaʻana, e haʻi i ka nui o kāu makemake e loaʻa ka moekolohe, malia paha,ʻaʻole pono ke pili pono i nā paepae.
ʻEhia ka nui o kāu moekolohe me ke kāne a me ka wahine?
ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā keʻano o ke alapine o ka pilina pili i ke kuko o nā hormones sex, he mea likeʻole kēlā me kēia kanaka. He mana nui ma kēia hōʻike ke kahi e noho ai. Uaʻikeʻia he lōʻihi o ko Southernersʻoi aku i ka maʻalahi ma mua o ka poʻeʻike i nā "hauʻoli" a pau o nā pale anu. A, no ka mea,ʻaʻole e hiki ke hoʻokuʻuʻia nā makahiki -ʻo kaʻelemakule ka mea, ke kino o ka hormones i ka kino o ke kino, aʻo ka meaʻuʻuku i ka wahine. ʻO ka hopena hope loa ia e alakaʻiʻia e sexologists, e pane ana i ka nīnau o ka manawa o ka pule e pono aiʻoe e moekolohe. Eia nā kulekele a lākou e hāʻawi aku nei i nā mea a pau eʻike ai:
- He 20-25 mau makahiki -ʻehā manawa o ka pule;
- 25-30 makahiki -ʻekolu manawa o ka pule;
- Nā makahiki 30-40 - 2 manawa o ka pule;
- ma hope o 45 mau makahiki - ma lalo o hoʻokahi manawa i ka pule.
Pono eʻikeʻia heʻoi aku ka pili o kēia mau paepae i nā kāne o ka heluna kanaka, akā no ka mea, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea i manaʻo i ka nui o ka wahine e makemake ai. Ua pili ka manaʻo me ke olakino o nā kāne e pili ana i ka nohona mau o ka moekolohe , a uaʻikeʻia nā wāhine e hiki ke hana me ka hanaʻole no nā makahiki me kaʻole e hōʻino wale i ko lākou olakino. Akā i kēia manawa, ua kamaʻilio pinepine pinepine houʻia e pili ana i ka pilina o nā maʻi o keʻano o nā puniwaiwai me ka nohokino piliʻole . No laila, pono nō ka wahine no nā wāhineʻelua, akāʻo ka nui o nā manawa e loaʻa ai ma muli o kou makemake wale nō,ʻaʻole ma luna o kaʻikepili.