ʻEhia ka nui o nā moʻolelo e pili ana i nā kāne e hōʻino i nā wāhine no ka hōʻoloheʻana no ka meaʻaʻole like ke keiki e like me kona makuakāne, a me kona makuahōnōwai wahine, no ke kumu hoʻokahi e manaʻo ai i ka hūnōna wahine o ke kipi i kāna keiki aloha. Akā, hiki ke pale i ka nui o nā kuhihewaʻana a me ka mālamaʻana i ka maluhia a me ka maluhia i loko o ia mauʻohana, e hāʻule i loko o nā lima o kēia mau mea kaumaha a me nā kupunawahine i nā puke maʻamau.
No kaʻikeʻole o kaʻike,ʻaʻole ia e alakaʻi i nā mele like o nāʻohana, e wehewehe i keʻano. No laila, i ka hapanui o nā hihia, ma ka hapanui o nā keiki, like nā keiki me ko lākou mau mākua, akā,ʻaʻole e wehewehe i nā hihia ināʻaʻole ke keiki e like me kona makuakāne aʻaʻole hoʻi i like kona mau mākua me ia?
Eia kekahi hiʻohiʻona mai koʻuʻohana iho. ʻO koʻu makuahine i koʻu mau manawa a pau e kānalua neiʻo ia ke keiki a kona mau mākua. ʻOiaʻiʻo, heʻokoʻa kaʻala o nā maka a me ka lauoho (mai ka makuahine) a me ke kūpono i nā maʻi maʻi (mai ka makua kāne mai),ʻaʻohe mea i loaʻa iā ia. Eia kekahi, ua hala aku nei koʻu kupunawahine i ka mau ahi i nā makahiki he nui i hala aku nei i ka wahie i ke ahi, me ka'ōlelo: "ʻAʻole ia e like me mākou, me he mea lā ua paniʻiaʻo ia i ka haukapila."
ʻAe,ʻaʻole i alakaʻi waleʻia e ka pono e wehewehe i kēia kumuhana no ka poʻe heluhelu, akā i ka hoihoi pono'ī, e ho'āʻo wau eʻike i ke mea e pono ai ke keiki, inā heʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea pono kekahi.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo e pili ana i ka waiwai o nāʻano
ʻO ka mea mua, e hoʻomanaʻo kākou i nā haʻawina o ke kula ma ka biology, kahi a mākou i haʻiʻia ai i ka māhele maʻalahi o ka hana hoʻoilina. Pono nā kupa i ka hoʻoilina o kekahi mauʻano. He mana loa nā Genes (ikaika) a hoʻomaha (nāwaliwali). ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka, inā paha he'īlio, he'īlio, he lio, he'okena, a he kanaka paha, e hoʻoili i nā kiniʻelua,ʻo ia hoʻi, hoʻokahi no kēlā me kēia makua. Ke hoʻololi nei nāʻanoʻano o kēia kanaka i ke poʻo nui, aiʻole i'āwiliʻia, a paha paha e hoʻomaha wale. Ke hoʻololi nei ia i kahiʻano lotiri. Eia kekahi, he mau mea hoʻonālā: ke kāheaʻiaʻana o nā genes nui, i kaʻike pinepineʻana i nā hanana (nāʻano o kēlā me kēia kanaka). Akā, aia nā kulekele a pau.
I loko o nā kānaka,ʻo nā genes e pili ana i kaʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele o nā maka, ka lauoho a me kaʻili, ka lauoho, a me nā hiʻohiʻona nui e manaʻoʻia he mana nui loa ia. No laila, no nā maka māmā,ʻo ka lauoho māmā a me ka lauoho, kaʻili o kaʻili, ka momona, nā kahe e malolo. No laila ke kumuhana:
- he mau makaʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele keʻokeʻo,ʻoiai, ua hānauʻia nā keiki hoʻokahi;
- ʻO ke keiki o ke kāʻei a me kaʻulaʻula keʻokeʻo, he mea hiki ke "hele" i ka makuakāne, akā hiki ke loaʻa iā ia ke oho a me ka momona;
- akā, no ka hoʻopiʻiʻana i nā kiʻikuhi e kahe ana, ua hiki keʻike mua i kaʻikeʻana o ka hua, no ka mea e hiki ke hoʻopiliʻia e nā genana mana o nā kūpuna, a me nā kūpuna'ē aʻe.
Ke'ōlelo hou aku nei au he kumu wale nō kēia, he kānāwai e kūpono paha i nā kumu. ʻO kekahi laʻana, he makuahine me ka lauoho lauoho, a me ka makua kāne hānai, hiki iā lāua ke hui pūʻia he mauʻanoʻano (he keu a he hoʻokahi manawa hāmele), a he keiki'ōpiopio wale nō. ʻO ka hopena, e hānauʻia ke keiki me ka lauoho pololei, a he mea kupaianaha ia, akā,ʻaʻole loa e pono ke hōʻoiaʻiʻo i nā mākua.
ʻO nā moʻolelo no ka hoʻoilina o nāʻano
E noʻonoʻo kākou i nā mea pinepine ma ka pūnaewele a me nā hōʻailona pseudoscientious media e pili ana i keʻano o ke keiki mua, a me ka hopena ma ka hua o nā genes o nā hoa pili mua o ka makuahine.
Paukū 1 . ʻO ke keiki mua e like me ka makuakāne, aʻo ka mea hopeʻelua e like me ka makuahine. ʻAʻole maopopo, ma ke kumu o ka mea nāna iʻike pono uaʻikeʻia kēia hopena. ʻAʻoheʻikeʻikeʻikeʻepekema a me kaʻikepili.
Paukū 2 . ʻO ke kumumanaʻo o ke telegony - ka mana i manaʻoʻia o ke kanaka mua ma nā hua a pau o ka wahine. Aia kekahi manaʻo e hoʻokuʻu nā mea moe kolohe a pau i ka wahine me kaʻike o ke kino, a ma hope iho e hōʻike iā ia iho ma kahi o kāna mau keiki. Uaʻikeʻia kēia manaʻo ma ka hapalua mua o ka XIX mau makahiki ma muli o nā hopena o kaʻikeʻana i ka lio me ka zebra, aʻo Charles Darwin hoʻi i hōʻikeʻia:ʻaʻole i hāʻawiʻia kēia huakaʻi, akā,ʻo ka heleʻana ma kahi o kēlā me kēiaʻano, hiki i ka hānauʻana o nā'ōpiopio. Eia naʻe, uaʻikeʻia aia ma ka hopena o ke kenekuliaʻumikūmāiwa, ua pāpāluaʻia kēiaʻike ma muli o nāʻepekema, aʻaʻohe keiki e like me nā hōʻailona zebra. ʻO paha paha ka hopena o ka hopena o Darwin ma muli o ka hopena o nā telegonics,
Eia naʻe, i nā manawa a pau, ua hele pūʻia ka hānauʻana o ka pēpē a me nā'ōlelo hoʻopiʻi o nāʻohana e pili ana i keʻano o ke keiki. Inā like ke keiki me kona makuahine, nā kupunawahine a me nā kupunakāne ma kaʻaoʻao o koʻu makuahine, inā e haʻi ka pope a me konaʻohana me ka haʻaheo i kāna'ōlelo: "A he mea liʻiliʻi loa - i kā mākou pua!" He mea maopopo kēia mau mea, no ka mea, makemake nā kānaka a pau eʻike i ke kanaka iki i kona hoʻomau . Akā, mai hopohopo ināʻaʻole i hānauʻia ka pēpē e like meʻoe. Heʻano likeʻole nā kānaka a pau, a ua akamai ka hanaʻana i keʻano, e hana ana i kēlāʻano likeʻole. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, eʻae likeʻoe, he meaʻoliʻoli ke hānai a hoʻonaʻauao i kāu kope pololei.