ʻO nā kānaka iʻikeʻia, he mau moho no nā moeʻuhane, kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻokolokolo i ka wā e hiki mai ana. I mea e pololei ai kaʻike e pono ai, pono e hoʻonui i kahi kiʻi kiko'ī no kaʻikeʻana i nā kiko'ī a pau.
He aha ka mea e hiamoe ai kekahi kanaka maʻamau?
ʻO kēlā hālāwai ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana a inā e lawe mai i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, a laila e maikaʻi nā hana. Inā pau ka hālāwai me kahi hoaaloha i ka hōʻino, a laila i loko o ke ola maoli e manaʻo kekahi i nā paio, ma ka laʻana, ma kaʻohana, ma ka hana a ma nāʻano'ē aʻe. No nā kaikamāhine hoʻokahi, he moeʻuhane no ka hālāwaiʻana me kahi kanaka'ōpiopio heʻeha, no ka mea,ʻo ia hoʻi, i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e hele mai kahi kanaka kūpono i ke ola e hiki ai iā ia ke kūkulu i nā pilina ikaika. ʻO nā nūpepa me kahi hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhane keʻano o kahi pilikino nui i pili i ke kālā.
Eʻike mākou i keʻano o nā moeʻuhane o kaʻimiʻana i kahi hoaaloha i loko o ka pūʻulu he mea hōʻailona e kū i kahi kūlana inā pono kekahi e pale i kona manaʻo. Ināʻaʻole maikaʻi ka hulina, hiki i ka mea moeʻuhane ke hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻia. Ma hope o ka ho'ālaʻana, hikiʻole ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea i hea i loko o ka moeʻuhane -ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ke ola maoli eʻikeʻia kahi kanaka i makemake nui e hoʻopoina. ʻO kēia hālāwai e hiki ke hoʻololi i ke ola.
No ke aha i moe ai kekahi hoaaloha kahiko?
ʻO kahi hālāwai i manaʻoʻoleʻia me kahi kanaka āu iʻikeʻole ai no ka manawa lōʻihi, ma ka moeʻuhane, ke nānā aku nei i kahi mea e mahalo ai. Inā hoʻopuka kahi hoaaloha i nā manaʻo leʻaleʻa, a laila, e haʻalele ka mea hilahila i nā manaʻo hōʻeha. Eʻike mākou i ka mea e moeʻuhane nei nā hoaaloha kahiko, a heʻoluʻolu maikaʻi paha e kamaʻilio ai me lākou, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia, e hōʻike ana i kahi manawa kūpono e hoʻoneʻe ai i ka lālā hana. Ma kekahi o nā puke moe, he moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā mea kahiko i unuhiʻia e'ōlelo hōʻailona e hiki ke lilo i mea hūnā i ka waiwai o nā kānaka'ē aʻe, ka mea e pōʻino ai i ka inoa.