ʻO ke aloha - kekahi o nā manaʻo nui loa e hiki ai ke loaʻa i kekahi kanaka wale nō. A laila paha, ho'āʻo mākou ma nā ala a pau e hūnā i kāna mauʻike i ka wā mua. Ma kahi o nā mea i kūpono i kēia mau kānaka, ka mea i kāohiʻia e ka loiloiʻole e hōʻike i nā hōʻailona o ke aloha i wahine. Hiki i kahi mea iʻikeʻia e ka wahine ikaika ke hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo, hoʻomaha ka mea i koe no ka makaʻu i ka hōʻinoʻana no ka nāwaliwali. Malia paha he mau mea a pau a he pono, akāʻo nā kaikamāhine e loaʻa i kēlā mau mākau kūikawā no ka hoʻoholoʻana i ke aloha kāne, e like me ka heluheluʻana i nā maka a me ka kohoʻana i nā lehelehe.
5 mau hōʻailona o ke aloha i ke kāne i ka wahine - nā hiʻohiʻona o ke kūkiko
- Demonstrateveness . ʻO ka makemake eʻoluʻolu i ka mea waiwai e alakaʻi i kahi loli o keʻano e kuhikuhiʻia i ka hōʻikeʻana i nāʻaoʻao maikaʻi loa. Hiki iā lākou ke hōʻoia: ke kūlana kālā, ka pilikanaka, keʻano, nāʻano pono a me nā akamai.
- Nā hana a me ke alo . ʻO ka hoʻonaʻauao'oniʻoli o ke kanakaʻaʻole eʻae iā ia e hōʻike i ke aloha i ka wahine, no laila, pono e nānā i nā hōʻailona wahaʻole. Hiki ke hōʻehaʻia ka waho o ka hihia ma nā hana'ākauʻole: palekana pinepine i ka helehelena, ka hanaʻana o nā lima i ka wahine e ho'āʻo i ka lōʻihi ma waena oʻoe, ka hana houʻana i kāu mau hana, ka hukiʻana i nā kapa, ke kuʻihiwi i nā poʻohiwi, kau i nā lima ma nā hihaka a me nā pū'ī. Hiki i nā maka ke kumakaia i kahi kanaka, e nānā pono ka mea aloha iā ia i ke kiʻi o kahi wahine, e kīkī ana i kona mau maka.
- Ke mālama . Hiki iā ia ke nānā i nā pilikia o ke kaikamahine, nā mokulele, e ho'āʻo e pale i nā pilikia, a pēlā aku.
- Kālepa . E ho'āʻo kahi kāne e kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ia iho, e like me ka hiki, i hiki i ka wahine ke aʻo i ka maikaʻi.
- ʻO lili . ʻO keʻano o kēiaʻano ke hōʻike nuiʻia i mua o ke alo o kahi noho aliʻi ma mua o ka wahine waiwai. Akā, hiki i nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika ke lili no ka hana, no nā kaikamāhine, a no ka manawaʻole i hoʻolimalima pūʻia me lākou. No laila,ʻaʻole eʻike waleʻia nā manaʻo o ka mea nāna iʻike, akā, me he mea lā he manaʻoʻole e hele pū me ke kaikamahine ma nā wahi āpau.
ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole loa e hilinaʻi ponoʻia ka hōʻailona. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i kekahi hopohopo ke kamaʻilioʻana ma muli o nā manaʻoʻoluʻolu, akā ma ka hanuʻana i nā pilikia'ē aʻe a iʻole ka makemakeʻole. No laila, no ka hoʻoholoʻana i ke aloha kāne, ma kaʻikeʻana i kekahi mau hōʻailona.