Pehea kaʻoluʻolu a me ke kumu waiwai e mahalo ai i ka makuahine i kona lā hānau?
Ma muli o nā makemake o ka kaikamahine hānau, ponoʻoe e koho i kahi makana. E hauʻoli kekahi mau wahine i ke apo gula hou, makemake kekahi e like me ka lawelawe o ka chic tea, aʻo nā wāhine hānai e hauʻoli i ka lio i ka nahele, i hāʻawiʻia e nā kamaliʻi.
Pono e hoʻoholo i ka pehea e hoʻohanohano ai i ka makuahine i kona lā hānau ma ka makahiki. ʻO nā wāhine i hiki i ka 60 mau makahiki e piʻi mai me nā makana kumu loa , akā , ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo a mahalo nui ka wahine hānau hānau i kēia mea, no laila, makemakeʻo ia i kahi mea'ē aʻe.
ʻO ka mea nui, inā he nui ka poʻe i konoʻia i ka lā hānau, eʻoluʻolu loa ia no ka loaʻaʻana o kahi kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi kiʻi e like me ke aloha o nā keiki. He mea kūpono iā ia ke koho i nā kiʻi o ka makuahine iʻoi loa aku ka lanakila, a ma nā kiʻi e haʻi e pili ana i nā manawa maikaʻi loa o kona ola - hānau, kula, hale kula, mare, ka hānauʻana o nā keiki, kā lākou maleʻana, ka hānauʻana o nā moʻopuna. Hiki i ka mele mele i waeʻia me ke kākoʻo i kahi hōʻike hōʻikeʻike aʻaʻole e haʻalele i kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
Nā manaʻo o ke aloha mai ke kaikamahine
Ma mua nei, i kēia lā, e koʻu makuahine,
He'ōpio a maikaʻiʻoe.
ʻAʻoleʻoe i hoʻololi i kekahi gram,
Ke mele nei kouʻuhane.
Mahalo wau iāʻoe i ka lā makahiki,
E kuʻu hoaaloha, koʻu makuahine,
Ke makemake nei au i ke aloha honua,
Mai kahiko oe, mai maule.
Hiki ke hoʻoleʻaleʻa i kou makuahine me kāna kaikamahine ma o kahi mele nani, hiki ke kauohaʻia ma ka lekiō, kahi e hoʻolohe ai ka makua i kēlā me kēia lā.
Inā he mea heluheluʻeleʻeleʻo ka makuahine, hiki i ke kaikamahine ke hana i kahi wikiō aloha a kauʻia ma Youtube, a pono e hoʻouna ka makua i kahi loulou i ia mea. He maikaʻi kēiaʻano o ke aloha, ināʻaʻole he manawa e mahalo ai i kou makuahine.
ʻO wai, ināʻaʻoleʻo ke kaikamahine, maopopo i ka makemake o ka makua e noho mau i ka nani. No laila,ʻo ka makana kūpono i ka lā hānau makahiki, he kau inoa inoa ia no ka SPA lola aiʻole kahiʻauʻauʻana, a iʻole paha he palapala hōʻoia ma loko o nā hale kūʻai a me nā hale kūʻai.
He mau manaʻo no ke hōʻoluʻolu mai kāna keiki
ʻAʻole nā wahine a pau i ka manawa e maʻalahi ai i kona ola me ke kōkuaʻana o nā pono hale o kēia manawa. Hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻoleʻa i kona makuahine i kona lā hānau a hāʻawi iā ia a me konaʻohana i keʻanoʻoihana maikaʻi.
Ināʻaeʻia nā kālā, a laila, he makana kūikawā a me ka maikaʻi loa i ka hīnaʻi pua nani o nā pua i hūnāʻia kahi kope i waho a i loko o kahi hale noho. ʻO ka mea, ināʻaʻole ke keiki, pono ke mālama i kona makuahine ma kona mau poʻohiwi ikaika, no ka mea, ua hāʻawiʻo ia i kona mau makahiki maikaʻi i kona hānaiʻana.