Ma kaʻeha o nā lā hoʻomaha, he nui ka poʻe e hoʻoweliweliʻia e ka nīnau o ka mea hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka makahiki hou no nā mākua. Ma hope aʻe, makemake wau eʻoluʻolu mai ka makana, ua hauʻoli au a hoʻomanaʻoʻia no kekahi manawa lōʻihi.
Nā manaʻo no nā makahiki hou no nā mākua
He aha ka makana i loaʻa i nā mākua? E hoʻomanaʻo no ko mākou mau makua a me nā makua, ma ka mea mua,ʻaʻole ia ka waiwai o ka makana, akā, he mea koʻikoʻi kou manaʻo. No laila, ināʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i nā makana hoʻokipa i ka makuahine a me ka makua, hiki iāʻoe ke kūʻai i hoʻokahi makana e haʻi iāʻoe i ka nui o kaʻohana iāʻoe, a me kona lokahi a me ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i nā mea a pau. No laila, hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi i kēia mau manaʻo o nā makana kumu i nā mākua no ka makahiki hou:
- ʻO kahi kini a he kole paha . Nui loa koʻu makemake i kēia makana i nāʻohana, kahi mea maʻamau no nā mea a pau e'ākoakoa ma ka papaʻaina hoʻokahi, hoʻonohonoho i nā papa lōʻihi a kūkākūkā paha i nā kumuhana e pili ana i ke kīʻaha o kaʻaeʻawa.
- ʻO kahi'āpana momona . Kūʻai pinepineʻia kēlāʻano pūnaewele ma nā hale kūʻai i ka lāʻehiku o ka mau Hōʻai'ē Hōʻoli. Aia nāʻano leʻaleʻa maikaʻi, nā kuki, pinepine i ka komoʻana aʻaʻole wale i nā meaʻono. Aʻo ka'ōmole o ka champagne i loko o kēia pūʻali, e hanaʻia ma ka hōʻailona o ka makahiki hou.
- ʻO ka kiʻiʻohana ma kahi kiʻi nani . ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole hiki ke kapaʻia kēlā makana i ke kumu mua loa, akā, e pono mau loa, keʻoleʻoe e noho kaʻawale ana mai nā mākua mai. Eia hou,ʻo kaʻenehana hou eʻae iāʻoe e hana i kiʻi kiʻi maikaʻi loa. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki ke hoʻohanaʻia kekahi kiʻiʻohana i nā'umelo a me nā uluna. Eia kekahi, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i ka wae a pau o nā kiʻi o kāuʻohana a kākau ma luna o kahi kipa kiʻi'elekola aiʻole e kauoha i ke kiʻi kūikawā, i ka mālamalama o ka pō me ke kiʻi o kouʻohana.
- Hiki i nā pāʻani a me ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni no ka hana a kahi hōʻailona hou paha, eʻoluʻolu hoʻi i ka leʻaleʻa o ka makuahine a me ka makua. Hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā palapala hōʻoia likeʻole no ka heleʻana i nā papahana papahana, nā lā ma nā hoʻolima nani a iʻole ka hōʻailona hoʻomaha.
Nā manaʻo makana no ka Māmā
Inā hoʻoholoʻoe e hāʻawi i nā makana, ponoʻoe e hoʻomaka i nā mea a kou mau mākua i aloha ai. A malia paha ua moeʻo ia i ka moeʻuhane maikaʻi, āu e hoʻomanaʻo ai a kōkua iāʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i kēia ma ka mahina o ka makahiki hou. No laila e makemake ana ko makuahine ia:
- Inā makemakeʻo ia e hōʻoluʻolu i nā hola ma ka lumi kuke, a laila, e hoʻohanaʻo ia i nā mea likeʻole o nā kīhini umauma, nā mea hana hou no ka hanaʻana me nā huahana likeʻole, a me nāʻano puke kiko.
- Hiki iāʻoe keʻoluʻolu i ka makuahine wahine wahine me nā papa hana no ka ulana, ke kāhiko, a me nā poʻi nani no ke kāhiliʻana i nā mea hana.
- Hāʻawiʻia nā palapala hāʻawi makana i nā hale kūʻai a me nā nani o nā hoʻolālā maikaʻi me ka hauʻoli, no ka mea, makemake kekahi wahine e nānā i keʻano a me ka nani.
- ʻOiaʻiʻo, e makemake ana kou momona i nā papa hana kūpono, i pono i kēlā me kēia makahiki. Eia nō naʻe, pono e kohoʻia nā mea maʻamau e pili ana i nā pono a me kaʻano o kaʻili, no laila inā makaʻuʻoe i ka hanaʻana i nā hewa,ʻo ka makana maikaʻi loaʻo ia kāu puna momona.
Hāʻawi i nā manaʻo no ka makuakāne
- Inā loaʻa i kahi makua kāne kekahiʻano leʻaleʻa, kūʻai palekana aku i nā makana e kūpono i kāu mea aloha punahele. Eia kekahi laʻana, eʻoluʻolu ka mea lawaiʻa i nā noho noho , nā makau, nā lāʻau lawaiʻa, nā pāmahana aʻoi aku.
- Inā loaʻa i kahi makua kāne kekahi puke pai i paiʻia ma ka puke: he magazine a i kahi nūpepa paha, e hāʻawi iā ia i ka palapala makahiki makahiki iā ia a hiki i kēia manawa.
- Eʻoluʻolu paha nā mea likeʻole no kāu mau makua.
- ʻO kahi makana eʻoi aku ka hauʻoli ma mua o kaʻeke nani i hanaʻia i kaʻili maoli. ʻO keʻano nui, nā meaʻili i ka lole: belts, nā mīkina lima - he makana maikaʻi no kēlā me kēia kanaka.