Me ka hoʻomohalaʻana i nāʻenehana, ua ulu nui nā kamepiula, nā polokalamu kamepiula, a me nā polokalamu kelepona i loko o ko mākou ola. Hoʻohana mākou i ka manawa nui i kēlā me kēia lā e pili ana i kēia mau polokalamu. A ma hope o ka nohoʻana ma ka lolouila i ka lā a pau ma ka hana,ʻaʻohe mea hoʻopilikia i nā mea likeʻole, e like me keʻano o kāu kau ahiahi a me ka home.
Hoʻopau liʻiliʻi a i ka wā o nā mea hoʻohana. Inā he mau makahiki heʻumi i hala iho nei,ʻaʻole maopopo i ko mākou mau kupuna wahine a me ko mākou mau mākua kāne no nā kamepiula, i kēia manawaʻaʻole mākou i kahaha nui i ka loheʻana mai koʻu kupuna wahine: "E hele i ka pūnaewele, e kīʻoe i Skype, ke kaikamahine." Hiki ke pili like i nā keiki, keʻoki nei ko lākou naʻau i nā mea pāʻani, kahi e pāʻani ai nā mākua i ka lā a pau. ʻO kekahi mau keiki i piha i hoʻokahi a me ka hapalua makahiki, hiki iāʻoe ke wehe i ka papa a hoʻololi i ka kamepiula. Akāʻaʻole nā mākua a pau eʻaʻa e hāʻawi i kā lākou keiki i ka manawa e pāʻani ai i kahi'ōnaehana waiwai, no ka maopopo ponoʻana iā lākou ke hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana aʻaʻole no ka hana (e like me ke hama). Iʻole e lawe mau i kāu polokalamu kelepona i kēlā me kēia manawa e hoʻonāukiuki i kona mau manaʻo maikaʻiʻole, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka makemake iā ia no ka meaʻole. Eia kekahi, i kēia mau lā, he nui nā papa hoʻonaʻauao likeʻole a me nā leka no nā keiki,ʻaʻole ia he mea emiʻole no lākou ma mua o nā mea maoli.
Pono i kahi keiki e pono i kahi papa?
Ma ka nīnau inā he keiki e kūʻai i papa, aia nā manaʻo likeʻole. Manaʻo kekahi he mau lāʻeleʻele nā keiki e kūʻai aku i nā mea hana, a e wehewehe i kēia ma ka'ōleloʻana e pili ana ka papa, e like me ka lolouila, he mea pāʻani wale nō no lākou. Aʻaʻole ia he mea kupanaha i ka poʻe e paʻa nei i kēia manaʻo,ʻaʻole lākou e wikiwiki e kūʻai i papa no kahi keiki, no ka mea, ua manaʻo lākou he mea kōkua i ka hoʻouluʻana i ke keiki o ka pilina paʻa i nā pāʻani rorohiko aʻaʻohe mea'ē aʻe. Eia kekahi manaʻo'ē aʻe no kēia mea. Ma hope o ko lākou kūʻaiʻana i kahi papa pāʻani kālā no kahi keiki, manaʻo nā mākua e hāʻawi lākou i kā lākou keiki, he mea hana akamai nui loa, e wehe ana i kahi honua hou i mua ona. Maanei,ʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o ka nui o ka manawa o ke hānai keiki a me ke kumu e alualu aiʻoe i ka kūʻaiʻana i kahi papa. Inā kūʻai nā mākua i ka papa no kahi keiki e lawe ai i kekahi mea, a laila e emi iki ka hana, a laila,ʻaʻohe mea e hana ai ke keiki akā e pāʻani ma luna o nā pāʻani a he waiwai nui kēia. I mea e hoʻonui ai i nā pono o kēia kūʻai, pono pono e hana me ke keiki a hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia me nā pāʻani aʻo. Pono nā makahiki o ke keiki. ʻOiai, i loko oʻelua mau makahiki,ʻo ka wā nui nō ia o nā mea pāʻani e kūʻai, no ka mea,ʻo nā puke nani i kēia mau makahiki, he like a like a maikaʻi no nā keiki. ʻO ka manawa kēia e hoʻokomo i ke keiki i ka honua o nā kamepiula i ka wā he 4-5 mau makahiki.
ʻO ka papa e koho ai no kahi keiki?
Nui nā papa me nāʻanoʻokoʻaʻano likeʻole a me nā kumu hana. Pono e kohoʻia ma muli o keʻano o ka papa e pono ai nā keiki. Eia kekahi laʻana, aia nā papa pāʻani no nā keiki, ka mea kūʻai maʻa mau no nā pāʻani. Eia kekahi mau papa kiʻi kiʻi no nā keiki,ʻo ka mea wale nō i kahakahaʻia. Loaʻa i nā mākua ke koho i mua o ka papa e hāʻawi i kahi keiki, keiki a kanaka paha (kanaka makua).