ʻO ka pilina ma waena o nā mea likeʻole, heʻano likeʻole: he wahine ka wahine, a lailaʻo ka makuahine, aʻo kekahi no ka lōʻihi e kali ana i ka hoa pili i ka hana hoʻoholo. Ke hāʻule nei kaʻuhane o kekahi wahine i ka kānalua e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka hoa hele a makemakeʻo ia eʻike i ka pehea e hoʻoholo ai inā aloha kekahi kanaka iāʻoe.
Pehea e hoʻoholo ai i kahi mea a ke kanaka e aloha ai?
ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, he maʻalahi kaʻike kanaka. Kūleʻaʻo ia ma nā'ēheu a makemake e pili kokoke i kāna mea i waeʻia 24 mau lā i ka lā. Hana maikaʻiʻo ia i nā maʻi hauʻoli, ua mākaukauʻo ia e hele pū me kāna mea i aloha ai e kūʻai aku a kākoʻo i kona mau makemake. Mai hele a hakakā me ka mākaukau e pepehi i ka mea nānā i kāna wahine. E like me kouʻike, nā maka - he aniani o kaʻuhane a ma luna o lākou e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻike i ke aloha o ke kanaka, a pehea e maopopo ai, e like me kēia. Ke mahanahana ke aloha, e like me ka hume. ʻO keʻano, i nā manawa o ka pilina aloha e hoʻololi anaʻo ia i ke aloha, akā i nā manawa'ē aʻe, heʻano like kēia, aʻo ka hōʻailona maoli o ke aloha ,ʻo ia ke nānā aku i ka wahine, no ka mea, ke nānā pono nei ke kanaka i kāna wahine, no ka mea, ke aloha nei nāʻelele o ka hapalua o ke kanaka me ko lākou mau maka.
ʻO ka poʻe i makemake i kahi'ē aʻe e hoʻoholo ai i ke aloha o ke kanaka, e pono e hoʻolohe i kāna mau hana,ʻaʻole nā hua'ōlelo. ʻO kahi mea hana maikaʻi aʻo ka mea wale nō e makemake e loaʻa i kekahi mea mai ka wahine e loaʻa mau i nā'ōlelo nani, akā,ʻo ke kanaka e pili ana i ka pilina, e hōʻikeʻo ia iā ia iho ma nā hana. ʻAʻoleʻo ia ma laila ma nā manawa hauʻoli wale nō, akā, i ka wā e loaʻa ai ka pōʻino a me ke kaumaha. Aʻaʻole e kōkua ka'ōlelo kūpono wale nō, akā, me ke kālā, ka pilina. Hāʻawi kekahi hoa aloha i nā mea e ola ai me kāna wahine aʻike iā iaʻo kāna wahine, ka makuahine o nā keiki a me ka haku o ka hale. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea maʻalahi nā mea a pau loa, aʻo ka kānalua loa i kona mau manaʻo ua hōʻike muaʻo iaʻaʻole he kāne e lawe pono i ka wahine aʻaʻole alohaʻo ia iā ia.