ʻO kaʻohana - nā mea huna o ka holomua

ʻO ka manawa pinepine, e luku ana i nā launa maikaʻiʻole, ke hana nei mākou i ka hoʻopaʻaʻana i kaʻokoʻa o nā hua'ōlelo. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, uaʻike nā kānaka loea i ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo ma loko o nāʻohana hauʻoli, hiki i nā hoa ke like me ka like a me keʻano'ē aʻe. No ke aha i hana ai kekahi i kaʻohanaʻoliʻoli, aʻaʻole hiki i kekahi poʻe ke loaʻa nā helu kuhia no nā makahiki? E nānā i nā hopena o nā kānaka'imikalapaʻi a me ka nānāʻana i nā pilina ma nāʻohana maikaʻi, a na mākou e hoʻopili i nā hōʻailona nui o kaʻohana waiwai.

Nāʻike i ka holomua o kaʻohana hauʻoli

  1. Makemake. ʻO kekahi o nā mea nui loa i loko o ka pilina aloha,ʻo ia ka makemake e hana i kēia mau pili pili loa. E hoʻomaopopo a hōʻoia lākou i kaʻoiaʻiʻo e kūkuluʻia ka pilina, no ka mea heʻano likeʻole kāu.
  2. Ma nāʻohana maikaʻi a me nāʻohana, hiki mau ka mahaloʻana kekahi i kekahi me nāʻohana a pau. ʻO nā hoaaloha a me nāʻohana no ka hoahana, hoʻohaʻahaʻaʻoe i kāu koho. No laila,ʻoʻoe iho. No ka hōʻehaʻana i nā keiki lehulehu, hōʻikeʻoe i nā hewaʻole ma kāuʻaoʻao. ʻO nā mea a pau,ʻo kāu mau keiki kēia, a nānaʻoe e hānai. Ke hoʻololi nei, hōʻikeʻoeʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka kohoʻana o ka hoa. A eia hou,ʻo koʻoukou ola mau loa ia.
  3. Hoʻolaha. Ma nāʻohana maikaʻi a me nāʻohana,ʻaʻole he nīnau no ka hemo. ʻAʻole. A, eia hou aku,ʻaʻole i hiki i ka hōʻailona. Ua hui pū lākou "me ke kaumaha a me kaʻoliʻoli, i ka maʻi a me ke olakino." ʻAʻole kēia manaʻoʻaʻole loa lākou e hakakā,ʻaʻole e hana hewa, akā, mau loa ko lākou euphoria. ʻAʻole ia he kumu no ke kaʻawaleʻana, akā, hoʻokahi wale nō o nā hanana i ka uluʻana o ka pilina.
  4. Nā pahuhopu a me nā pono. Lawe pūʻia nā pono likeʻole, aʻo nā pahuhopu e hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo a me ka maopopo i ka pilina, akāʻaʻole hiki i nāʻohana he nui no nā makahiki ke manaʻo e holo nei lākou ma nā ala likeʻole a me nā hopena'ē aʻe.
  5. ʻO ka manawa no ka hoʻomahaʻana,ʻo ia ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo o kaʻohana pilina. He kuleana ko nā kānaka a pau i loko o kaʻohana. ʻO kēlā manawa ke hikiʻole ke hele aku kekahi ma waho o nā lālā o kaʻohana. E lilo i ka lā hoʻomaha me nā hoaaloha a ma kahi kaʻawale.
  6. Makehewaʻole. Ma nāʻohana pilina, manaʻo wale nā ​​kānaka a pau no ko lākou pono iho, akā, no ka mea nui. Hoʻohanaʻia kēlā me kēia mea e hana i nā kūlana maikaʻi no kaʻohana i koe. Uaʻikeʻia he lōʻihi inā he maʻi wale nō kaʻohana, a laila ma hope lilo ia i meaʻino no nā mea a pau.
  7. Kala kala. Akā naʻe, ua hiki ke hana hewa. Ma nāʻohana hauʻoli, makemake nā hoa eʻike i ka noiʻana wale no ke kalaʻana, akā, no ka hāʻawiʻana aku. E kalaʻia mai laila mai hoʻi i kēia hapa i kekahi hihia.
  8. Ka nele i nā kuleana. Akā paha heʻano kupanaha paha kēia, akā, i loko o kēia mauʻohana,ʻaʻohe māhele o nā dute. ʻO ia, hiki i ke kāne ke kōkua i kāna wahine ma ka mahiʻai me kāna noiʻole, a ua hiki i ka wahine ke kōkua i kāna kāne ma ka mālamaʻana i kaʻohana, ke loaʻa iā ia kāna uku. ʻO ia wale nō i loko o kaʻohana hauʻoli e kōkua nā wāhine i kekahi i kekahi ma muli o ka pono e hana ia mea, akā, no ka mea,ʻo ko lākou makemake maoli nō e haʻi i nā pilikia a mālama i kekahi i kekahi.