ʻO ka maʻamau,ʻo ka hui kaiāulu e komo i nā pilina piliʻekolu - homo, hetero a me bi. ʻAʻole i maopopo i nā kānaka a pau keʻano o ka hoʻolālāʻana, no ka mea, he mea maʻamau ka hanaʻana i nā pilina me nāʻelele o ka wahine'ē aʻe a me lākou wale nō. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, aʻo a aʻo nā keiki i ka honua ma nā hiʻohiʻona o ko lākou mau mākua a he makuahine a he makua kā mākou. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma ka hapanui o nā hihia, hānauʻia ke keiki ma nāʻohana kuʻuna.
Ke kiʻina'enekema
Pono wau e'ōlelo,ʻaʻole e ola nā kānaka a pau i nā kumumanaʻo a me nā kumu i manaʻoʻia he kūlohelohe a me ka loina, a ua loaʻa kēia i ka ho'ākākaʻana mai kahiʻikeʻikeʻepekema. Ua hōʻikeʻia nā manaʻo i kahi kanaka me ka hānau maʻamau o ka maʻi maʻamau. A ma ke kaʻina o ka hoʻonaʻauao a me ka hoʻomohalaʻana i keʻano, pono'īʻo ia e hoʻoholo e pili ana i kona pilina. ʻOiaiʻo ia ināʻaʻoleʻole,ʻaʻole iʻike maopopoʻia,ʻo kahi wale nō o ka hoʻonohonoho maʻamau ma ka honua he hetero,ʻo ia hoʻi he heterosexuality, a me ka like, e like me homo,ʻaʻole pono i kēia hihia. ʻOiaiʻo ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana o kaʻepekema i nā mea e piliʻole ai ka pilina o nā kānaka a me nā holoholona ma kaʻikeʻoleʻia,ʻaʻole e like ka lāhui i nā keiki liʻiliʻi me ka makemakeʻole.
A e like me ka mea ma mua?
He mau meaʻokoʻa ka mea nui, nā mea pili i nā māngai o nā wāhineʻelua a me nā wāhine kāne - ka poʻe i makemake waleʻia e ko lākou wahine. ʻO ka nīnau maʻamau ka hoʻomāinoino o ke kanaka no nā makahikiʻoi aku i hoʻokahi tausani. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā mea nui o ke ola kanaka. ʻO kekahi poʻe,ʻaʻole like me nā kānaka a pau, ua lawa i nā manawa a pau. I ka Helene kahiko, ua nui nāʻano likeʻole, a me nāʻelele o ka kūlana kiʻekiʻe loa, a he male kāne a he maleke paha, akā he hapa. ʻO ke kāne kāne he pono ke loaʻa iā ia he wahine aloha a me nā keiki, akā he pilina kona me nā kāne a me nā wāhine.
I ka hui o kēlā manawa uaʻaeʻia keʻaeʻia aʻaʻohe kumu hoʻonāukiuki. He hana pono'ī kēlā o kēlā me kēia kanaka aʻo kāna koho wale nō. ʻO ka noho kāne kāne ma waena o ka pūʻali koaʻaʻole kekahi mea kūʻokoʻa. ʻO ke kaiākea, kahi i hōʻikeʻoleʻia ai ke kūʻana o nā wāhine, nā kāne i hoʻoikaikaʻia e nānā iā lākou iho he mau hoa moe. ʻAe, aʻo ka manaʻo i ka poʻe pio i ia mau lā,ʻaʻole ia iʻokoʻa loa i ka lāhui kanaka, a no laila ua hoʻokauʻia nā koa i lanakila ma ke kahua kaua. I kēia manawa, ua akāka ka manaʻo o ka pisexual a pehea e mālama ai i ka ma mua.
Pehea i kēia manawa?
Ma ka kenekulia 21, ua hoʻomakaʻia ka hoʻomanawanuiʻana o nā mea liʻiliʻi ma muli o ka loli o nā kānaka ma nāʻano he nui o ke ola. Akä, i këia lä, ma kekahi mau ÿäina, ke ÿike mua nei ka make i ke käneipoipo. ʻO kekahi poʻe e pili ana i kēiaʻano o nā manaʻo iʻoi aʻe "ke kanaka" a mālama i ka "hewa" wale nō i ka hoʻopaʻi koʻikoʻi. Akā, ma nā hihia a pau, i ka honua, nā kāne a me nāʻelele o nā mea liʻiliʻi'ē aʻe, uaʻikeʻia lākou a komo i luna o ke aupuni, mai ka luna nui o ka pono e loaʻa iā lākou nā pono like
ʻO ke kaikamahine e like kona manaʻo he hiki iā ia ke pili i ka wahine kāne paʻa, akā, he mau pili pū me nā wāhine a me ka hewa. ʻAʻohe mea e hōʻohewa iā ia no ka mea,ʻo ia kona ola a me kāna koho. Ma nā'āina Slavicʻaʻole i kūkākūkā ponoʻia kēia māhele, akā uaʻike lākou no ia mea, akā,ʻaʻole makemakeʻoe e'ōlelo. I nā mana o ke Komohana, i kapaʻia nā "pāʻina male". Hoʻonohonoho nā kāne kāne i nā hui holoʻokoʻa a hele ma nā alanui o ko lākou mau kūlanakauhale pono'ī, me nā loleʻaʻahu iki, a ma laila e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻokomo i ka nānāʻana iā lākou iho a me ka hihia o ka hōʻeha i ko lākou mau kuleana.