He kanakolu mau makahiki e noho pū ana i kahi manawa e komo ai ka lua o ka wā'ōpio. I kēia wā, uaʻelemakule nā keiki, ua kūkuluʻia kaʻoihana, a ua hoʻokō maoliʻia nā papa hana ola. A he aha lā ka helehelena nani i hiki ke hele me kaʻoliʻoliʻole a me ka mahalo? Inā loaʻa i kahi makua kekahi lā hoʻomana, e mālama i nā makana i ka wā ma mua. Hiki iā lākou ke hoʻohana a hoihoi paha i ke mele, a me keʻano kuʻuna paha.
ʻO ka leʻaleʻa male: ka mea e hāʻawi i nā mākua?
E hōʻoia i kēia mau makahiki he kanakolu i noho ai ua mau wāhine nei, e hana mau nei no ka pono o kaʻohana, a hānai i nā keiki. No laila paha e hāʻawiʻia ka makana mua loa no ka mareʻana i ka'alemole he kope no nā meaʻelua ma kahi mokupuni'ē aʻe a iʻole kahi huakaʻi o nā wahi kaulana loa maʻEulopa? Manaʻo i ka lepo ma mua: e aʻo e pili ana i ka manaʻo o nā mākua e hoʻomaha ai i ke kahakai a hana paha me nā huakaʻi nui. Inā heleʻole ka holoʻana i kahi mamaoʻole, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo i kahi hele i kahi kaupaku a i kahi wahi mākaʻikaʻi. ʻO ka maha no nā mākua he makana kūpono i nā keiki.
Hāʻawiʻia nā makana no ka mareʻana i nā mākua. Hiki paha i ka manawa e kūʻai i kahi TV a me ke kapuahi hou. Inā he mau mea aloha nā mākua, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike aku iā lākou me kahi kiʻi pena a kiʻi kiʻi paha o kahi mea kākau kaulana kaulana. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kāu leka hoʻohanohano pono'ī a kono i nā malihini a pau e kākau ma laila.
ʻO ka meaʻoi loa loa,ʻo ia ke hāʻawiʻana i ka pāleina maikaʻi, he mea nani. No ka wahine, ua nui loa nā lei, nā kūpeʻe lima, nā apo pepeiao a me nā peni . Inā hāʻawiʻia ka uku kālā, hiki iāʻoe ke koho i kahi'āpanaʻeleʻele maoli. I ka huliʻana iā ia e huli i nā kī lihiliʻi mai nā pele. Hiki iā ia ke nānā aku i keʻano a me keʻano. Ma kahi o nā paʻi lihiliʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke nānā i ke kiʻi kaula.
Inā loaʻa koke kahi pāpale lei, aʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i ka mea e hāʻawi aku i kou mau mākua, e hoʻolālā i kahi hoʻomaha no lākou. Inā he wā wela o ka makahiki, hiki iāʻoe ke lawe aku i nā mea a pau mai ke kūlanakauhale aku a iʻole e hoʻolimalima paha i kahi hale ma kahakai. I kahi manawa mālie, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu i ka lā i loko o ka cafe hauʻoli. Inā makemake nā mākua i nā makana aloha, e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka palapala video a iʻole ka papa kauoha no kaʻahaʻaina mare no ka pāleina lei. He mea weliweli loa kahi loleʻaʻahu a me kahi hexedo no ka uku!
ʻO kahi makana maikaʻi loa he kiʻi ia o kahi kāne i mareʻia, i kauohaʻia e kauoha. Ināʻoi aku ke kūlana o ke kiʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi kaʻa aloha. Hoʻomaikaʻiʻia kēia e nā mea aloha i keʻakaʻaka. Hiki ke hoʻohuiʻia i kahi mea hoʻolaha - he pōpō nui me ke kiʻi o nā pele a me nā hōʻailona mare eʻoluʻolu loa ia i ka "male hou".
He aha nā mea e hāʻawi aku no ka mareʻana i nā hoa?
Inā ua lōʻihiʻoe iʻike aʻike pono i nā mea maikaʻi o nā hoaaloha, hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi iā lākou i kahi kīʻaha nani a me nā lole moe. Ināʻikeʻoe i ke kūlana o ka hale aʻike i ka ho'āʻoʻana o nā wāhine, e ho'āʻo e huli i nā papa lepo, nā kiʻi a me nā mea'ē aʻe'ē aʻe no ka lumi lumi moe a me ka lumi moe.
No nā lālā'ē aʻe, e hana nā mea pono hale. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, hāʻawiʻia lākou i nā meaʻai , nā umu welawewe. Hiki iāʻoe ke koho i kahi oki cutlery. Loaʻa nā meaʻoluʻolu a me nā mea i hanaʻia no kaʻili-ʻeleʻele: nā kiʻi, nā pū e hoʻomanaʻo ai, nā ipukukui, a me nā mea nani wale nō.
Hiki paha ua moe lōʻihi lāua i kahi puaʻa. Inā kohoʻoe e noho ma kēiaʻano o ka makana, e kūkākūkā me ka mea ma mua. I pinepine pinepine i kēia manawa, hoʻomaka nā māhele male e komo i loko o ka dacha. Ma keʻano he makana, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike aku i nā hua puana o nā mea nani a me nā kiʻi kālai'āina. Hiki nō hoʻi iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kahi lūlū kolo aiʻole i kahiʻauʻau māla.