ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā ma ke kūkāʻana o 60-70% o kaʻike a ke kanaka i loaʻaʻole mai nā hua'ōlelo, akā, mai nā kumu kīnāʻole: ke nānā, nā hiʻohiʻona, nāʻano likeʻole e paʻa ai, keʻokiʻana, a pēlā aku. ʻO ia ke kumu e hiki ai i ka wahine ke nānā aku i mua o kāna mau'ōlelo. Inā kū ka leo i kahi mea a ke kanaka e makemake ai e hāʻawi i nā mea'ē aʻe, a laila hāʻawi nā maka i nā mea a pau i'ōleloʻoleʻia.
ʻO ka nānāʻana o ka wahine i mareʻoleʻia
Hiki i nā wāhine i mareʻoleʻia ke koho i nā kulekeleʻokoʻa. ʻO ka poʻe e hele nei eʻimi i ka hoa, e like me keʻano, e nānā pono, e pana i ko lākou mau maka i nā kāne, e nānā i nā mea'ē aʻe. Me kahi wahine e maʻalahi i ka hakakāʻana i loko o ka lehulehu, makemakeʻo ia e hīmeni ma ke kanaka i weheʻia e kamaʻilio. Me nā wāhine i maʻa mau, a laila hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kekahi wahine e nānā ana i ka nānā. Akā, no ka nanea kokoke i ka nānāʻana, hiki i kona mau maka ke kāhea a me ke kaumaha - ua pau ia i ka lōʻihi o konaʻimiʻana.
ʻO kekahiʻano o nā wāhine i mareʻoleʻia e makemakeʻole e nānā i nā mea a pau. He manawa hilahila lākou a he haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa paha, no laila,ʻaʻole lākou e nānā i nā mea'ē aʻe mai nā poʻe'ē aʻe, aʻaʻole hoʻi eʻike i ke nānāʻana o kekahi iā lākou. Ke emi mau nei ko lākou mau maka,ʻaʻole lākou e nānā i nā maka o ka mea hui.
ʻO ka wahine o ke aloha
I ka wā e aloha ai ka wahine, e wela ana kona mau maka, aʻoluʻolu iki kona maka. I kēia māhele, uluʻoli kekahi kaikamahine, lilo i mea maikaʻi a mahalo aku. ʻO ka helehelena o kahi wahine aloha he meaʻono wale nō ia me kaʻoliʻoli, aʻo ka mea maʻamau,ʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻike i kekahi mea a puni ona, no ka mea, ua nānāʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo a me kona mau manaʻo.
Pehea keʻano o ka wahine e'ōlelo nei? ʻO ka mea wale nō i pili iā ia i kēia manawa, koe wale no ka mea aloha, ua hauʻoliʻo ia a bapetizoʻia i loko o ka wai o kona mau manaʻo.
ʻO ka lookle o ka wahine leatherle
Aia kekahi lālā maʻamau - nā wāhine make. He wahine mahalo, wahine, nani,ʻikeʻole, aʻoluʻolu. I ka manawa mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e hana i kekahi mea kūikawā, e noho mālie,ʻaʻahu nani, akā,ʻaʻole pololei ... akā ua kau nā maka iā ia. Ma hope mai, ua maopopo ia i loko ona i nā hiʻohiʻona, nā hiʻohiʻona, ka heluheluʻana i ka manaʻo o ka hao a me kona hoʻokipa.
ʻO kēlā wahine, inā nānāʻo ia i ke kāne, hāʻawiʻo ia i kona maka, no ka mea, uaʻikeʻo ia e aneane paha eʻoluʻolu kekahi i ka manaʻo o kekahi mea e like me ia.
ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ka wahine no kekahi kanaka e hāpai i ka nānā
He nui nā wāhine e hoʻohana ana i "nā maka maka" no ka hoʻohuliʻana i ka manaʻo o kahi kanaka a kono iā ia i kahiʻike. I loko o ko mākou kaiaulu,ʻaʻole nā kānaka a pau e pili ana i ke kauoha pololei a ke kaikamahine, no laila ma mua o ka heleʻana i mua, nui nā wāhine e hoʻohana i nā mea hoʻopunipuni a me nā mea hoʻowalewaleʻaʻole ia e manaʻo inā hele maiʻo ia i ona lā.
E nānāʻia
- Ke nānā pono nei ke kaikamahine i ka maka o ke kāne, akā, i ka wā eʻike ponoʻo ia i kona maka, heleʻo ia ma waho me ka huikau.
- Ke nānā mua nei ke kaikamahine i ka maka o ke kanaka, a laila e nānā iā ia mai ke poʻo a hiki i kaʻaoʻao, a laila eʻike anaʻo ia e nānā ana, no ka lua, ua kūʻo ia e nānā ana i kona mau maka a nānā aku.
- ʻO ke kaikamahine e "nānā wale" aku i ke kāne, me he mea lā uaʻikeʻo ia he mea kahikoʻo ia, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i maopopo loaʻaʻoleʻo ia i kuhihewa.
ʻO ka nānāʻana o kahi wahine i ke kāne, he mea ikaika ia no ka wahineʻoluʻolu kūpono. ʻO kona mau maka ia e hiki ai iā ia ke hōʻoluʻolu i kahi kanaka maikaʻi e hoʻomaʻamaʻa aiʻole e hoʻomaopopo paha i kahi mea makemakeʻole iʻole e hoʻonele i ka manawa.