Kaʻokoʻa i ka makahiki 20

Uaʻike nā kānaka a pau i ka hua'ōlelo "ʻO ke aloha o nā makahiki a pau e hoʻolohe ana." Manaʻo nui ka poʻe e hiki iāʻoe ke hālāwai aku me kahi kanaka o kouʻuhane, kou puʻuwai, ma ka 20 a 50 mau makahiki. Mai ka maka o ke kele uila, me ka makaʻoluʻolu, nānā mai nā hoa kāne iā mākou,ʻo ka nui o ka makahiki iʻoi aku i ka palena he 10 makahiki. Akāʻo kekahi kaikamahine i ke ola maoli, ua hoʻoholo e pili i kona ola me kekahi meaʻelua,ʻekolu manawa o kona mau makahiki, he mea nui loa ia. E ho'āʻo eʻike i kahi e hūnā ai i kahi kūlana a me ka mea e pono ai keʻano likeʻole ma ka makahiki o nā wāhine .

Kaʻokoʻa i ka makahiki 20

ʻOiai he 20 kona kaikamahine a 40 kona mau makahiki, uaʻano maikaʻi nā mea a pau: ua likeʻo ia meʻoe, piha i ke aloha, nā makemake a me ka ikaika. Akе, hiki i ka manawa ke hopena a me ka mea e hiki ke hana i ka 40 o ka pöʻani pöpani? A no ke aha, me ka nānāʻole i nā pilikia kūpono, e piʻi nā kaikamahine i loko o ka wai me ko lākou mau poʻo, e pani ana i ko lākou mau maka i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka nui o ka makahiki ma ko lākou mareʻana?

1. I kekahi manawa,ʻikeʻia ke kumuhana maʻalahi i loko o ka maleʻana o kēiaʻano. No laila, he kanaka waiwai loa ka mea waiwai, hiki iā ia ke hoʻolako i kāna mea pono'ī, akāʻo kāna wahine. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, uaʻano like ka pilina like me ka pāʻina hana.
2. Ināʻaʻohe aloha aloha o ke kaikamahine i kona wā liʻiliʻi,ʻaʻole ia e weheʻia ma loko o kahi'ōpiopio o kēia mau makahiki keʻikeʻo ia i ke kanaka i kona moeʻuhane.
3. Aia kekahi māhele o nā kāne, i ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana, eʻoluʻolu e hoʻokani i keʻano o ke alakaʻi, aʻo nā wāhine, he poʻe haumāna. I kēia manawa, inā pili kēia mau meaʻelua i nā kuleana o kaʻohana, a laila, hiki paha ke holomua ka noho maleʻana,ʻoiaiʻo ka piliʻana i kēia mau pilina, he kūlana koʻikoʻi kēia.
4. ʻAʻole e wehewehe ka hoʻonaʻauao i ka hiki i nā loinaʻelua keʻike maoli i nā manaʻo maoli no kekahi me kekahi a ma kēiaʻano ua hana kekahi i ka hoʻoheneheneʻino i ko lākou mau makahiki.

ʻO kaʻokoʻa loa o nā makahiki

He mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i nā noiʻiʻana a ka American Institute of Sociological Institute e aʻo ai i nā pilina pilina, ma ʻo ia hoʻi kahi i pili iʻelua tausani wahine a me nā kāne, ua hōʻikeʻo ia, akā,ʻo ka 1% wale nō o nā mea pane i manaʻo i ka nohoʻana o kahi pilina maikaʻi me nā kāne'ōpio ma mua o kā lākou mau wāhine. Hoʻomaopopoʻia he 40% no lākou no ke kaʻina o ka makahiki kūpono he 4 mau makahiki, a he 30% ka manaʻo he 5 a 6 paha mau makahiki. Ua nānā ka poʻe akamai i nā pane a pau a loaʻa i ka hopenaʻo kaʻawelike ka lōʻihi loa he 4.4 mau makahiki.

No laila, ināʻoe e hōʻailona i ka hōkū me nā kāne,ʻo ke keʻa o ka makahiki ma waena o 4.5 mau makahiki,ʻo kahi hiʻohiʻona o ka mō'ī keikikāne Elizabeth II (87 mau makahiki) a me kāna kāneʻo Philip Mountbetten (92) i hiki koke mai i ka manaʻo.