ʻO nā manaʻo e pili ana i nā hopena o ka hānauʻana, ka waiwai waiwai, kaʻaihueʻana, ma ka hopena, e pili ana i ke olakino o ke keiki, ua laweʻia i ke kumu, no ka mea,ʻo ka mea nui e hopohopo nei i ka wahine hānau a me ka makua kāne o kaʻohana i kēia wā,ʻo ia ka wahine o ke keiki. Keʻikeʻia nei, he aha nā pilikia - e hana i ke kānakahi a kānalua i ka hopena. Akā,ʻo ka mea mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ka ultrasound e hāʻawi i ka hōʻoia haneli haneli, a me nā kānalua, kū'ē i nā hanaʻenehana hou, e hoʻomau mau i nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana, aʻo ka lua, aia ke hāpai i ka wā i'ōleloʻole ai nā kauka i ke ultrasound no nā kumu palekana. Eia kekahi, aia mau nā ululāʻau e hōʻole ana i kaʻikepili o ke kīpona mai ke kumuhana, me he mea lā e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana iā lākou iho a me ka honua keʻanoʻole lākou i ka poʻe e aloha.
Ke hopohopo nei mākou i ka manawa i hānauʻia ai kāu hōʻailona, e alohaʻoe iā ia, me ka nānāʻole i ka moekolohe, a me ka hoʻopoina i nā mea pili i ka wahine. Akā, oiaiʻoe e hoʻonāukiukiʻia, makemake mākou e kōkua iāʻoe, e hoʻoholo ma nā hōʻailona o ke keiki āu e kali nei, aʻo ke kaikamahine paha.
Nā hōʻailona waho
E hoʻomaka kākou me ka'ōpū. I loko o ka'ōpū, hiki i keʻano o ka'ōpū ke kuhikuhi i ke keiki a kaikamahine paha. Inā ua paʻakikīʻoe i nā'ūpī, a hoʻolahaʻia ka pūhaka - e kakali no ke kaikamahine, inā mai ka hope mai uaʻikeʻoleʻia kou'ōpū,ʻo ka'ōpū he mau mea maʻamau wale nō ma waenakonu - e loaʻa iāʻoe ke keikikāne.
ʻO ka nānāʻana o ka wahine maʻamau ua lōʻihi ka manawa i lilo i hōʻailona maikaʻi loa o ka hānauʻana o kahi keikikāne. No ke kaikamahine e haʻi aku i kaʻino i waho - nā'āhua puaʻaleʻa, pallor, nā hiʻohiʻona i'ōlohelohe. 'Ōlelo lākou iā ia he momona kahi kaikamahine i kona makuahine. I ke keikikāne, ua lilo ka wahine i mea nani, pua, a me nā kīnā āna iʻeha ai i mua. ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona o ke keikikāne he ihu pōkole.
Pehea e neʻe ai ka'ōpū?
Wahi a nā mele kaulana e pili ana i ka hānauʻana o ke keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha, e haʻi ana lākou i ke kāpili o ke pēpē. Inā kuʻi ke keiki i ka hanana - kūʻai aku i kahi'ōpiopio'ōpio, inā hāʻule ka hāʻule i lalo, i loko o kaʻawaʻawa - e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi keikikāne.
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka'ōpū i ka wā'ōpiopio,ʻo ke keikikāne e'ākau pololei,ʻo ke kaikamahine - haʻalele.
Ka manaʻo a me ka wahine
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka manawa o ka hānauʻana o ke keiki e haʻi pū nō hoʻi i ka māla a ke keiki. Hiki ke hoʻoholo i ka hānauʻana o kahi keikikāne e ka'ōhūʻana - inā i hāpaiʻia ka pēpē i ka lā o ka'ōhūʻana, e kali i ke keikikāne ināʻelua mau lā ma mua o ka paleʻana - aia kahi kaikamahine.
E pili ana hoʻi i ka māhele'ōlelo "ke kāne male" o ka makuakāne - ināʻoi ka wahine ma luna o ka moe, aia ke kaikamahine inā he keiki kēia kanaka.
Nā memo i ka makua
Hiki keʻano, he aha keʻano o ka manaʻo i nā hōʻailona i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana a me ka weheweheʻana o ke keikikāne a he kaikamahine paha ka makua. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole ka poʻe akamai i ka'ōlelo ma 'aneʻi, akā nāʻikepili! Wahi a nāʻikepili, hiki i nā kāne'ōpio ke 1.5 mau manawa ke lilo i makua kāne o nā keikikāne ma mua o nā kāne me nā mea kanu ma ko lākou poʻo.
Eia kekahi, inā loaʻa ka momona me kahi wahine hāpai, e kali i ke keiki. Eia kekahi hōʻailona o ka ho'ākākaʻana o ka moekolohe e like me nāʻaʻahu o ka makua kāne: inā makemake kekahi kāne i ka lole, e loaʻa iāʻoe ke keikikāne. Inā he kuokoa - he kaikamahine.
Keʻano o ka'ōpū
ʻO keʻano,ʻo ka hana i ka wā o ke kōkomo, ua hoʻoholo nuiʻia e keʻano, ka nohona, ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana o nā wāhine. Akā, no ka hoʻoholoʻana o nā pale keiki e like me ka hana a ka makuahine i ka hānauʻana,ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hana likeʻole.
No laila, keʻano o nā hanaʻino, ke kūkākūkā e kamaʻilio ana no ke kaikamahine e hiki mai ana, kahi maikaʻi loa o ke ola kino a me ka maʻalahi - e pili ana i ke keiki kāne. Inā he wahine i ka manawa o ka'ōpū ke uhi i kona kūlana - e loaʻa iā ia he kaikamahine, inā e hōʻike mai ana ka'ōpū piha, aia kahi keiki.
A ke kamaʻilio hou nei ka huhū mai ke alo o kekahi mau kāne e pili ana i ke kaikamahine.
Nā koho kūpono
Aia kekahi hōʻailona o kēlā mau wāhine, i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana o ka'ōpū e hoʻolālā i ka palaoa a hoʻomaha maikaʻi no nā kaikamāhine. A ināʻo ka'ōpū ka mea iʻono i kouʻono "waiʻona" - ua alohaʻoe i ka meli,'āhiʻona,ʻai,ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo i ke alapiʻi me ka marmalade (a me ka hōʻehaʻole), ke kali neiʻoe i kahi kanaka'ē aʻe i loko o ka hale.
Eia kekahi,ʻo nā mea e kali ana no nā keikikāne uaʻoi aku kaʻinoʻino ma mua o ka meaʻawaʻawa, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi, ua kiʻekiʻe kaʻona. He'ōlelo kūpono kūpono kēia, no ka mea, ma ke kino,ʻoi aku ka paʻakikī no ka wahine e hānau keiki.