I kaʻikeʻana o kekahi kanaka i kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o ka moekolohe,ʻaʻohe hewa. Hoʻopukaʻia nā manaʻo noʻeau i kēlā me kēia manawa e nā kāne a me nā wāhine. A inā he nui ka hilinaʻi a me ka maluhia i nā pilina ma waena o nā hoa, e hiki ke mālama pono i kēia mau hilinaʻi.
Nā manaʻo noʻeau o ke kāne
E aʻo mai i kāu mea aloha e pili ana i kona mau mea e makemake ai. E hoʻokuʻi aku i kekahi i kekahi me nā manaʻo pili loa. ʻO keʻano hoʻohālike,ʻano like like nā manaʻo o nā kāne male o ka hapanui. Hiki ke hoʻopaʻaʻia kēia papa inoa no ka manawa lōʻihi, e hoʻonui mau i kēia. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole i kūpono ka waihona. Eʻike kākou i nā mea e moe ai nā kānaka ma luna o kahi moe.
- Haawe. Hiki iāʻoe keʻoni aʻe. ʻO ka mea nui, makemake ke kāne e noho hoʻokahiʻo ia, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe a pau i loko o kēia "papahana" he mau wāhine. He meaʻoluʻolu ia, ma muli o kēlā mau moeʻuhane, he nui nā lālā o ka wahine ikaika, inā loaʻa koke iā lākou kēia manawa kūpono, mai wikiwiki e hoʻohana. Wahi a psychologists,ʻo ke kumu o ka hopohopo he mea hikiʻole ke hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻia ma keʻano o ka wahine aʻeha i ka "qusco",ʻaʻole eʻoluʻolu i nā hoa a pau.
- Elua wahine. No kaʻikeʻana i keʻano o ke aloha me nā kaikamāhine maikaʻiʻelua, ua moe kēlā me kēia kanaka. ʻAʻohe mea'ē aʻe.
- ʻO ka hōʻeha wahine. ʻO ka lua o ka hilinaʻi ma ka papa inoa he makemake e nānā i kāu wahine aloha. Makemakeʻo ia eʻike i kona uhiʻana iā ia iho, e hōʻike ana i nā mea a pau āna e hana ai. He mea nui iā ia nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo eʻike nei iā ia. ʻO ka mea mua, nā kāne e like me kēia, aʻo ka lua, heʻano "papa papa", kahi e hiki ai iā ia ke aʻo i kekahi mea hou a pono.
- Ka moe me ka malihini. Ke moeʻuhane nei kekahi kanaka no ka hanaʻana me kaʻole o nā manaʻo a me nā'ōlelo mua e hana ai me ka wahine āna i makemake ai, ke moekolohe. Ua like ka maʻalahi meʻelua manawa: hiki mai,ʻike a lawe.
- He wahi lehulehu. Ma ka pāʻaina pôpeku i loko o kahi pāʻani paʻakikī, ma kahi pāʻani, ma kahi haleʻaina, i loko o kaʻaha kala - kokoke i nāʻekolu o nā moeʻuhane no ka moeʻana me ka wahine i kaʻike.
- Makemake e hoʻolohe. E pāʻani i ka hoʻoheneheneʻana i kekahi kauā kauā. He kūpono kēia i nā kāne nāna e mālama i nā mea a pau i loko o ko lākou ola. He ikaika, waiwai, a haʻaheo - i kekahi manawa e makemake lākou e kukuli iho i mua ou. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole lākou eʻae i kēia.
- ʻIke kāne wahine. ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo, aia nā wahi hoʻokipa nui ma ka anus o kahi kanaka. ʻAʻoleʻo ia i ho'āʻo e hūnā iā ia, ma mua mai iā ia iho, akā, aia nō keʻano o ka hilinaʻi. ʻO ka hopohopo o ka noʻonoʻoʻiaʻo ka moekolohe,ʻo ia ka mea e pale aku ai iā ia mai ka haʻiʻana i kona mau makemake.
No ke kanakaʻaʻole kōkua i waho, e kamaʻilio me ia ma ke kumu o ka moekolohe a mai makaʻuʻoe e hoʻokolo i kahi moe.
Nā manaʻo noʻeau o nā wāhine
Ma keʻano he mau hiʻohiʻona o nā manaʻoʻeleʻele i nā kaikamāhine, hiki ke kohoʻia kēia mau mea:
- Haawe. ʻO ka mea maikaʻiʻo ia,ʻaʻole i kūpono kēia hiʻona. Ke moeʻuhane nei e hoʻopilikiaʻiaʻoe ma nā wahi apau a i ka manawa hoʻokahi, e hāʻawi i ka leʻaleʻa learth - hiki. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole hiki i nā wāhine a pau ke hoʻomana i nā kāneʻelua.
- ʻO ka wahine me ka wahine. ʻO kekahi o nā manaʻo wahine mua. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e hoʻomaopopo i ka makemake o ka wahine,ʻo ia ka wahine. Hāʻawi i kahi kaikamahine aloha, aloha a aloha aloha -ʻo ia ka hopena o kēia hihia.
- Ke mana. ʻO ka manaʻo o ka paʻaʻana i nā lima a me nā wāwae e kāohi i nā kaikamāhine he nui. I ka manawa o ke aloha aloha, makemake wau eʻikeʻole i ka palekana, e hoʻoikaika iho iaʻu i nā manaʻo,ʻaʻole e halihali i kekahi kuleana. Ua lawa kā mākou ola.
Heʻano likeʻole kēia me ka manaʻoʻole. - He kaikamahine kula a he kaikamahine wahine paha. ʻO nā pāʻani pāʻani pāʻani me nāʻaʻahu nani, he moeʻuhane ia no kekahi wahine. Makemake wau e lilo i ke kiʻi o kekahi kaikamahine hānai kolohe a iʻole ke kauā lawelawe. E hoʻomanaʻo, e hoʻomanaʻo.
- Hō'āiwi. ʻO ka manaʻo e hopuʻia e ka ikaika, e wehe iāʻoe i kou kapa a lohe i nā'ōlelo huhū - heʻano nui kēia hiʻohiʻona i kou makemake.
Mai hūnā i kou mau manaʻo hilahilaʻole. E hoʻohana iā lākou ae hauʻoli.