ʻO ka moe mau he leo a he leo paha o kā mākou meaʻikeʻole e kuhikuhi ana i kahi pilikia a ākea paha i ka hana kolohe. I kekahi hihia, pono ke hoʻolohe i kekahi, e ho'āʻo e wehe i ka manaʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane, iʻike i ka hana e pono ai ke lawe.
No ke aha i moe ai ka wahine i kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele?
ʻO kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele e hōʻike ana i ka hilahila, ka pohō a me ka pilikia, akā naʻe, e pōkole ana ia, a e hoʻoponopono kokeʻia ana ma o lākou iho aiʻole iʻole e hoʻokomo iki i kāuʻaoʻao. ʻO kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho i ka moeʻuhane i kahiʻaʻahuʻeleʻele, he hōʻailona o ka hōʻeha wawe. Ināʻoe e hele ana ma ke alanui, hiki iāʻoe ke hopuʻia me nā hoa nohoʻoluʻoluʻole ma ka hokele a me nā mea hele ma ke alanui. ʻO ka poʻe e hana nei i kā lākouʻoihana, hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo i nā pilikia liʻiliʻi a me nā kuhihewaʻana i kaʻoihana, he wahi liʻiliʻi loa i kaʻoihana. Ināʻoe eʻaʻahu i kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hāʻule koke. Akā, inā eʻaʻahu kahi wahine'ē aʻe i kaʻaʻahu, pono ia e kali i ka hakakā me ia.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane o kahiʻaʻahu'aleʻeleʻeleʻele?
Manaʻoʻoe, he meaʻoluʻoluʻole keʻike iāʻoe iho i kahiʻaʻahu'aleʻeleʻeleʻele, keʻoleʻoe e makemake koke i ka mareʻana.
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane kou kapa keʻokeʻo e lilo iʻeleʻele, a laila, e hoʻoweliweli ana kēlā moeʻuhane i nā maʻi a iʻole pilikia paha i kaʻoihana. He mea kūpono ia e uku nui aku i kāu olakino.
No ke aha i kahi wahine mare i ka moeʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele?
ʻO ia moeʻuhane paha e hiki ai ke hōʻeha i ka maʻi nui a iʻole ka makeʻana o ka mea aloha i ka mea āu iʻike ai i kaʻaʻahu mare. I kēia manawa, inā ua hiki mai ka moe, pono e hoʻopuka i kahi lima kōkua ma kahi manawa pilikia loa nona.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai kaʻahaʻaina ma kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele?
E hiki nō hoʻi iā ia ke'ōlelo aku i ka mea nāna iʻike ia mea ua paʻa a paʻaʻole i ka pili pono iā ia iho, pono iā ia e noʻonoʻo i ka launa me nā pilina, eʻike i nā mea hou a me nā mea hoihoi.