I kēia ao hou,ʻaʻohe mea e hiki ai ke hoʻokūpī i kekahi me ka nānāʻole i ka hanaʻole, akāʻaʻole lākou e hōʻike i ko lākou piliʻana i nā mea pili a me nā lebiana, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe o kaʻahahui e hoʻomaopopo mau i kēia mau mea. Ma muli o kēiaʻano hiʻona, keʻano pinepineʻole e like me ka hūnā o ka lahui, e like me ia iho, aia nō hoʻi nā pilikia. ʻO kēia nō ke piliʻana i nā kaikamāhine i hiki iā lākou ke aloha me ke kanaka me kaʻikeʻoleʻoleʻo ia he male kāne, aʻo ke kanaka ma ia manawa e hoʻohana i ke kaikamahine i mea uhi nona, i mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai he kāne heterokū maoli ia. Iʻole e hāʻule i loko o kēlāʻano,ʻo ia ka mea e alakaʻi pono ai i ka hoʻopau loaʻana i nā pilina a me nā waimaka, he mea pono ke nānā i kekahi mau hōʻailona maʻamau o ka wahine kāne e kōkua i keʻano e hoʻomaopopo ai i ke kāne male. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, pinepine nā manawa e kānalua aiʻoe i ka'ōlohelohe o kāu hou (aʻaʻole paha iʻike), iʻole eʻoi aku kaʻike o kēiaʻike no nā kaikamahine.
Pehea e aʻo ai i ka pīpī?
No ka hoʻomakaʻana, pono e huli i ka nīnau o ka ho'ākākaʻana o kahi kāne male kāne,ʻo ia he 100% mau keiki kāne, aʻaʻoleʻo ia he mea hilinaʻi a hūnāʻia paha no kēia'ōpiopio liʻiliʻi. No ka mea, me nā wahine i hoʻoholo mua iā lākou iho me ko lākou iho pilina o nā pilikia, emiʻole ka ala a ua maʻalahi ka aʻoʻana iā lākou.
Inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi e aʻo ai i ka pīʻani ma ke alanui,ʻo ia ka lole. ʻOiai, ua maʻalahi ka hoʻololiʻana i kēia ho'ākākaʻana i kēia mau lā, akāʻo kaʻano o nā lole e'ōlelo nui ana no ke kanaka,ʻoiai ināʻaʻole maʻalahi ia e wehe. No laila, hoʻomanaʻo pono nā poʻe kāne pīpī iā lākou iho a nānā nui i nā hiʻohiʻona. No laila ua maʻa mau ko lākou mauʻaʻahu, a he haʻukiʻole kekahi pilikia i ke kiʻi. Eia kekahi, he nani nā lauoho maikaʻi a me nā helehelena, nā'ōniu maikaʻi, nā lehelehe, nā lima a pēlā aku. Ma keʻano laulā,ʻaʻole lākou e uku i ka nānāʻana i ka nānāʻana ma mua o nā wāhine maʻamau.
He mea pono ke nānā i keʻano o ke kāne e hana ai me nāʻelele o kona kāne. ʻO nā mea pāʻani he mau freaky wale nō ia,ʻike lākou i kaʻikeʻoleʻia a pēlā aku. Ma keʻano laulā, eʻike paha nā maka wahine i kaʻike eʻike i kekahi mau hōʻailona hikiʻole ke mālamaʻia.
Eia kekahi, i ke kānalua o ka haʻalulu, hiki ke hāʻule nā bachelors, akā hiki wale ke huli i ka wahine maikaʻi loa. A nui aku nā kānaka e kākoʻo ana no nā kuleana o nā wāhine a iʻole, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e'ōlelo maikaʻi loa e pili ana i nā mākaʻi wahine.
Akā,ʻo ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nīnau pono i kahi kānalua. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, ināʻaʻole he kāne ke kāne, e paneʻo ia i ka nīnau. ʻAʻole loa ia e pane pololei, akā, e hiki ke hoʻomaopopo a maʻalahi.
Pehea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka wahine hūnāʻia?
Akā, ināʻoe e hoʻopili i ka nīnau o keʻano eʻike ai i ka male pīkole, hiki i nā mea a pau iʻoi aʻe ka paʻakikī. Aia kekahi poʻe e hikiʻole keʻae i kā lākouʻano aʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopo pono iā lākou iho no ka hoʻoholoʻana.
Akāʻo ka pilikia,ʻo nā hōʻailona a pau e hiki ai iāʻoe ke kuhikuhi i ke kāne male, he mea nui loaʻole. Ināʻaeʻaʻole ke kanaka i konaʻano aʻae iā ia iho e like me ia, a laila maʻalahi ka hoʻomaopopoʻana iā ia, e manaʻo ana kekahi kaikamahine, e like me kā lākou e'ōlelo nei,ʻaʻole pono kekahi mea. Me nā mea hūnā, uaʻoi aku ka paʻakikī, no laila e hoʻolohe i nā mea a pau i loko o ke kanaka: nā meaʻono, nā koho, a me konaʻano. I ka hopena, iʻikeʻo ia i ka nani me nāʻano ma ke alanui. Akā nō naʻe, he paʻakikī ke hoʻoholo i kahi paneʻole ma keʻano hoʻokahi a he mea e pono ai e kamaʻilio i ka naʻau-i-naʻau, iʻole e pilikia i ka hopena no ka meaʻaʻole pono ke waimaka.