ʻO ka pilina piliʻole me ka makuahōnōwai kāne ke kī nui i kona kākoʻo i nā paio me kona makuahōnōwai wahine, aʻo kekahi, aʻo kekahi paha,ʻaʻole hiki keʻaloʻia. A he mea kōkua kūpono no ka lā hānau o ka makua kāne o kāna kāne i lilo i alahaka kūpono no ka hoʻokumuʻana i ka pilinaʻohana.
He aha kāu e hāʻawi ai i kahi makuahōnōwai no ka lā hānau?
ʻO ka mea mua, e hāʻawi i kāna mea e hiki ai ke hoʻohana,ʻaʻole ka mea'ē aʻe mai konaʻohana. No lailaʻo kā lākou papa inoa e holoi koke i nā mea a pau o ka home a me nā mea i loko.
E hoʻolālā i kāu mau punahele punahele, nā manaʻo hoʻokipa, nā makemake o kou makuahōnōwai kāne. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā makemakeʻo ia e hoʻokele i kahi kaʻa, hiki ke hāʻawiʻia kahi makana i kahi piluna pilikino ma kahi noho, kahi kī massage, kahi mea hoʻomehana i loko o ka kaʻa mai ke kaomi.
Inā makemake ka makuahōnōwai kāne i ka lawaiʻa, e pono iā ia heʻeke moe , he'ōniʻoniʻo, heʻupena nūnū, he mea maʻalahi i keʻano o nā papa, a me nā noho no ka hoʻolimalimaʻana i waho, a me ka'ōmole maʻamau.
Inā he kauwela ka makuahōnōwai o ke kauwela, e pono iā ia kahi motokosa, kahi kīnaha hou o nā mea dacha hou, he mea hoʻolālā a me kahi o nā skewers, he hamo.
Hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i ka Turk ma kahi kūkani mai kahi mea hana kaulana a me kahi koleʻele.
No ka makuahōnōwai kāne i lilo i mea pili loa, e hanaʻia kekahi uila uila, kahi mea maʻalahi, nā kāhili, a me ke kaula kāwili i hanaʻia i ke kālā. ʻAʻole ka mākaʻewa no ke kanaka paʻapaʻa heʻekeʻili kao paha.
Ma ko mākou mau makahiki o nāʻenehana hōʻeuʻeu, keʻimi nei ka hanauna kahiko e mālama a mālama i nā huahana hou, no laila, he papa maikaʻi kahi papaʻaina a iʻole e-puke e hāʻawiʻia e kahi makuahōnōwai kāne.
He aha e hāʻawi i kahi makuahōnōwai kāne no ka lā hānau no ke olakino?
Inā make ka makuahōnōwai kāne i kaʻeha ma ke kua i lalo a hope paha, e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi o nā mea hou i kēia manawa no ka mālamaʻana a me ka paleʻana i kēia mau maʻi maʻamau. Hiki ke kōkua aku i ke kāʻei o ka'īlio makū, kahi wai inu wai wela, a mea pepehi.
Ma keʻano he makana, hiki iāʻoe ke uku iā ia he papa hana massage a lāʻau physiotherapy paha. A pēlā nō hoʻi e hāʻawi mai i kahi hōʻailona o ke kau lāʻau lapaʻau, kahi nui o ka lehulehu aiʻole i ka hāʻawiʻana i nā lāʻau lapaʻau i kēlā me kēia makahiki.
He aha e hōʻike ai i ka makuahōnōwai o ka wā e hiki mai ana no ka lā hānau?
Ināʻaʻole i hoʻonohonohoʻia kou kūlana i loko o kaʻohana ma nā pilinaʻohana a me kahi hōʻailona i kāu passport,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i nā makana hāʻawi i kou makuahōnōwai kāne. ʻOiai ma keʻano'ē aʻe,ʻo kahi makana nui e waiho ai iāʻoeʻelua i kahi hilahila, no lailaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hōʻalo i ia, e hoʻokaʻawale ana iāʻoe iho i kahi hōʻailona hōʻailona a maikaʻi a maikaʻi.
Hiki i ka hōʻailona ke nānā i ka waiʻona i loko o kahi pahu momona maikaʻi, kahi'enele maikaʻi, he puke i loko o ka puke makana, nā mea liʻiliʻi maikaʻi no ka kaʻa.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, i mea e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka makuahōnōwai kāne i ka Iubilē, ponoʻoe e 'nīnau' loa aku i kāna keiki -ʻo ia hoʻi, kāna wahine male. Mahalo paha,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i nā makemake o kona makuakāne, no laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pōpilikia i ke kōkua ma kēia mea.
Inā he kanaka kālepa kāu makuahōnōwai o ka wā e hana nei a nui i ke keena, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike aku iā ia me ka mea kāleka kālekaʻoihana, he mea hōʻano i keʻano o nā hakeke a he moku paha,
Ināʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea,ʻo ka hopena o kahi kūlana paha,ʻo ia ka pōpō mua i kahuʻia a hoʻonaniʻia e kou mau lima iho. ʻAʻole eʻike nuiʻia kēlāʻano hiʻohiʻona. Eia kekahi, i waena o nā kānaka he kakaikahi ka poʻe i makemakeʻole i ka lauoho.
ʻO ka hope, makemake au e'ōlelo e pili ana i ka pili o ka pilina me kaʻohana o kāu lā e hiki mai ana a iʻole ka kāne i hoʻopaʻa muaʻia, nā makana hānau a me nā lā aloha'ē aʻe,ʻo ia ke kī i kāu ola nohoʻoluʻolu. A laila,ʻo ka hemahema o ka nānāʻana e lilo ai i nā hopena maikaʻi.