ʻO ka lauoho o nā keiki me ka pāpale aliʻi e hāʻawi ai i kāu kaikamahine e like me he aliʻi wahine maoli, aʻo ia nō hoʻi e moe mau ana, ma hope o ka nānāʻana i nā kiʻi likeʻole. E like me mākou a pau,ʻo nā wāhine i kēlā me kēia mau makahiki o ka moeʻana o keʻano o nā wāhine aliʻi, no laila i kekahi manawa ponoʻoe e lawe i kēia moe i loko o kou mau lima, no ka mea, pono e hoʻokōʻia nā mīkini i kekahi manawa. No laila, no kekahi lā hoʻomaha, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kāu kaikamahine he kiʻi o ke kamāliʻiwahine, me ke kōkuaʻana i kaʻaʻahu nani a me ka helehelena. Eia kekahi laʻana, e palekana ka lauoho me ka pāpale aliʻi i ka puka ma ke kula kiʻekiʻe a ma nā papa haʻawina. ʻAʻole waleʻoe e hoʻokō i ka moe a kāu kaikamahine ma ka liloʻana iā ia he mō'ī no ka lā hoʻokahi, no laila,ʻoi aku kona mahalo ma hope o nā makahiki he nui, me ka nānāʻana i nā kiʻi palani maʻamau, a ma ka hoʻomahaʻana me ka huluhulu nani e kū ana kāu keiki mai ka lehulehu. No laila, e noʻonoʻo i ka hanaʻana i keʻano o ka diara me kou lima pono'ī, pehea ka lauoho e hiki ai ke paʻakikī a paʻakikī hoʻi i ka hanaʻana.
Pehea eʻaʻahu ai i kahi kaikamahine kaikamahine?
Hiki ke lohe pinepineʻia kēia nīnau, mai ke kāne kāne o ka makua. Inā 'aʻole' oe i hālāwai me ka hana 'ana i nā lauoho, i hana pinepine i loko o nā wāhine, mai hopohopo - he mea maʻalahi loa ka pale umauma no ke kaikamahine. Aʻo ka pāpale aliʻi e hanaʻia i ke poʻo ma hope o ka hanaʻana i ka lauoho. E hoʻomau ma ke poʻo o ka pāpale no keʻano o ka lauoho, akā, he mea nuiʻole no ka haʻaluluʻole i ke poʻo,ʻaʻole hiki ke lele aku, no ka mea, hiki i ka pāpale e lele aku aiʻole hiki i kahiʻaoʻao, e like me keʻano, hiki ke hōʻeha i ka lauoho. Akā, i ka laulā,ʻo ka paleʻana i ka pāpale,ʻo ia ka mea maʻalahi a me kaʻoihana o ka hanaʻana i kēia lauoho, no lailaʻaʻole mākou e lōʻihi i kēia manawa, akā, e hele pololei i ka weheweheʻana i ka hana o ka hanaʻana i ke kapa me ka pāpale liʻiliʻi.
Nā lauoho me ka pāpale aliʻi no nā keiki
ʻO ka mea nuiʻaʻole e poina e hana anaʻoe i ka lauoho no kahi keiki,ʻaʻole no ke kaikamahine makua,ʻo ia hoʻi keʻano o ka helehelena e like me ka makahiki, aʻaʻoleʻoe e hoʻohui. ʻO ke keiki i loko o kēia ola he hoʻokahi wale nō manawa, no lailaʻaʻole ponoʻoe e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa a ho'āʻo e hana i ke kaikamahine i ke kaikamahine me ka lauoho a me ka lauoho, akā, he mea kūpono ke hoʻokūkino i ka nani o nā keiki nani, a he nani a nani, e like me kahi lālā palupaluʻole i hōʻikeʻoleʻia nā petals.
No laila, he aha nā koho no ka lauoho i loaʻa iā mākou?
ʻO ka mea maʻalahi ka pale loea mau . Hiki paha i nā maka leka ke kumu o keʻaʻahu i ka pāpale aliʻi no ke kaikamahine. Hiki iā lākou ke waiho wale wale, e kaomi i ko lākouʻaoʻao me kahi pale, a iʻole e hoʻopaʻa i ka lauoho ma luna o ka huluhulu me kahi huelo a me ka pua. Nui nā koho a nā mea a pau e pili ana i kou manaʻo. Hiki iāʻoe, he laʻana, e loaʻa i kekahi mau makaleka i hoʻokaeʻia mai ka lauoho, i mea e hoʻolālā ai i ka helehelena, a he helehelena ke nānā aku.
ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe keʻalo i nā lau, e waiho ana i ka pilina no ka pono. I kēia hihia, nānā ka pāpale i ka nani loa i ka lauoho makapō. Hoʻonuiʻo ia i kahi kiʻi o nā māla waina, akāʻaʻoleʻo ia e hoʻonele iā ia i kahiʻano kūpono'ōpiopio.
Ma keʻano laulā,ʻo ka pāpale e hoʻokani i ka lei aliʻi no ka wahine e hoʻonāukiuki i ke keiki no ka meaʻaʻoleʻoe e pono e hana i ka nani, no ka mea, he mea maikaʻi ke kanaka. Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo, i kekahi manawa ponoʻoe i ka hauʻoli a me ke kōkua. Eia kekahi laʻana, i mea e hoʻonui ai i ke kiʻi o ke keiki, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohui i kou mau maka i nā mea e hoʻonaniʻia ai, e like me nā kāwaha nani i hoʻonaniʻia me nā pua a me nā "momi", hiki paha iāʻoe ke hoʻoulu i ka lauoho me ka paukū. Ma keʻano laulā, he nui nāʻano likeʻole maanei, kahi e hiki ai iāʻoe ke koho i kahi pono iāʻoe, a lawe pū i kekahi mea i kou lauoho, e pāʻani i kahi pale pale, e'ōlelo. E hoʻopili kēia hana no kāu a me kāu kaikamahine.
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Ma ke ala, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi hoʻolāʻau kūʻokoʻa me kou lima pono'ī.