Hanaʻia nā kapaʻaʻahu i ke kaʻawale

ʻO ke kapaʻaʻahu kūʻokoʻa,ʻaʻohe mea e pale ai a hūnā i nā hemahema o kahi kiʻi, pono ke waihoʻia ma nāʻaʻahu o nā kaikamāhine a me nā wāhine. I kēia mau lā, hiki iāʻoe ke koho i nāʻaʻahu noa o nāʻano a me nā lau.

Pehea e koho ai i ka lole pono no ke kaʻawale?

E noʻonoʻo paha mākou i kekahi mau'ōlelo kūpono e kōkua iāʻoe e koho i ka lole kūpono:

  1. Ma keʻano he koho no nā lā wela wela no nā'ōpiopio a me nā mīkini liʻiliʻi e makemake ana e hoʻonui i kā lākou mauʻano, hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo i kahiʻaʻahu hōʻoluʻolu o ke kauwela i hanaʻia ma nā'ōmaʻomaʻo. ʻO kahiʻaʻahu maikaʻi loa a me ka hoihoi no ka hoʻomahaʻana, he lole keʻokeʻo wale ia ma lalo iho o ka kuli.
  2. He mea kaulana loa ka wahine silhou ma waena o nā wāhine. Eia naʻe, ua hoʻopoina nā wāhine he nui i kaʻaʻahu kūponoʻole i waeʻia no ka piha piha hiki ke hoʻonui iāʻoe i kou nui maoli. E koho i kēiaʻaʻahu, e hāʻawi i ka mea makemake i nāʻili a me nā'eneka monopona me kahi hoʻolālā kūkeke.
  3. I mea e hōʻinoʻole ai i ka nui o kāu kiʻi, e hoʻohana i nā kaula o nā whānui ākea me he mea kōkua i kahiʻaʻahu noa. No nā wāhine me nāʻano, nā kohoʻoi aʻe ka maikaʻi, aʻo nā kaikamāhine puʻupaʻa e hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i ke kāʻeiʻiliʻiliʻili lahilahi ma ka pūhaka.
  4. ʻO ka hapanui o nāʻaʻahu i hanaʻoleʻia, e pono ai i nā kuʻekuʻe wāwae a me nā kāmaʻa ma kahi'āpana . ʻO kēia'ōlelo aʻo e pili ana i nā wāhine me nā wāhine piha. Akāʻo nā keikikāne a me nā wāhine he nui a me nā wāhine e hiki ke hoʻopaʻa palekana i nāʻaʻahu halaʻole me nā kāmaʻa wāwae a me nā kāmaʻa.

No laila, nāʻaʻahu o ke kī liʻiliʻi, mahalo i kaʻoluʻolu a me ka wahine, i kēia lā keʻoluʻolu i ka mahalo nui i waena o nā wāhine wahine. Ma hope o ka heluheluʻana i kā mākou'ōlelo aʻo, hiki iāʻoe ke hele maluhia i ka hale kūʻai e kūʻai mai i kahi lole hou i loko o kouʻaʻahu.