ʻO nā loina o nā keiki he mea maʻalahi ia, akā,ʻaʻole e hoʻopiliʻia me nā mea hoʻopunipuniʻole. ʻO ka nani o nā hale i ka nānā aku i nā mea, nā hanana a i nā kani paha iʻole i laila,ʻoiaiʻo ka wahaheʻeʻaʻole i kūpono keʻikeʻia e ke keiki o kekahi mea e noho nei ma ke ao maoli.
Nā hana i nā keiki - nā kumu
Ua hōʻikeʻia e kaʻimi a nā kānakaʻepekema i nā loiloi pepeiao i nā keiki i ka manawa o 7-8 mau makahiki, ke hele ke keiki i ka papa mua. Eia naʻe,ʻoi aku ma mua oʻumikūmālima hapahā o nā keiki i nīnauʻia e'ōlelo anaʻaʻole hiki ke pale aku iā lākou i loko o ko lākou ola a me nā aʻoʻana i kēlā me kēia lā. Aia kekahi meaʻano likeʻole me ka nānāʻole i ka pilina o ke pēpē a me kona wahi.
Hiki i nā loli ke hana i nā keiki i ka manawa o ka maʻi kuni. Ma muli o ka nui o ke ana wela o kaʻike, hiki i ka nawaliwali a me ke kīkī ma ke kino holoʻokoʻa,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole hiki i ka naʻau ke hoʻomalu i ka manaʻo a hoʻomaka ke keiki e hana. ʻO ka haʻalele iā ia wale nō i kēia māhele, hikiʻole i kekahi hihia, no ka mea, heʻano pilikino nā keiki i nā keiki a hiki ke maʻalahi i ka hopohopo, no laila e hopohopo ai ka pēpē.
ʻO kaʻaoʻaoʻoi loa o ka hanaʻinoʻana,ʻo ia ka pōkole pō i nā keiki, aʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o nā mea'ē aʻe ma mua o nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO nā mākua, nā mea e makaʻu ai nā keiki e hele i kahi moe, e ala pinepine i ka pō , e kākau i ka moeʻuhane a kāhea aku, he mea nui eʻike i keʻano o ka manaʻo o ke keiki. Mai hōʻino i ke keiki no kona hopohopo,ʻaʻohe'ōlelo no ka meaʻole, a manaʻoʻo ia. No lailaʻaʻoleʻoe e kōkua i kāu keiki! ʻO kēlāʻano hopohopo a me nāʻike i puka i kekahi manawa me ka manawa, akāʻaʻole lākou e nalowale me kaʻikeʻoleʻia. ʻO ka hoʻokipaʻana i ka pō i nā keiki hiki i ka hōʻemi nuiʻana i ka maʻi, kū i loko o nā manaʻo hauʻoli a me nā hōʻailona neurosis-like a me nā mea likeʻole.
Ua maopopo i kekahi o nāʻepekema no ka hopohopo e pili ana i nā loiloi i loko o ke keiki, he meaʻole ia, no ka mea, ma ka manawa e hala wale ai lākou. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi manaʻo kū'ē'ē aʻe o nā kānaka lapaʻau e hakakā nei i ka hopena o ka loiloiʻana i nā keiki ma mua o ka'ōlelo mua o ke keiki i nā maʻiʻeha. Hoʻomaopopo kokeʻia nā maʻi o nā keiki i ka manawa koke, no ka mea,ʻaʻole kēia wale nō ke kuko e hiki aku ana, akā he maʻi.