Hoʻohuiʻia ka makahiki hou me ka kohoʻana o kahi makana no kā lākou mau keiki, no laila, e ho'āʻo kēlā makua kēia makua i ka lā o kēia lā hoʻomaha eʻike i nā makemake o ke keiki a hōʻike i ka makana kumu. No laila, he aha nā manaʻo o nā makana no ka makahiki hou e pili ana i kēia wā a he aha kaʻu e nānā ai i ka kohoʻana i kahi hōʻike? E pili ana i kēia ma lalo nei.
He aha e hāʻawi aku i kahi kaikamahine?
Inā he kaikamahine naniʻoe i loko o kouʻohana, a laila ponoʻoe e kiʻi i kahi mea haʻahaʻa a aloha. He aha ka mea?
- Kahekini no nā mea hoʻohana . ʻO nā'ōpiopio'ōpiopio ka nui o nā mimiki maikaʻi, nā popo , nā pulu, a me nā lauoho. No kēia mau hihia, nā pahu nui, i hoʻolakoʻia me ka lehulehu o nā keʻena a me ke aniani, he kūpono. Mahalo i kēia "hoʻokani" e mālamaʻia nā mea nani a pau ma kahi i hāʻawiʻia aʻaʻoleʻoe e nānā i ka mea pono e pono ai.
- ʻO ka pāpani . Nā papahana o kaʻano. He aha ke kaikamahine eʻoliʻoliʻole ai i ka pepeʻi pele, i hoʻolakoʻia me nā hiʻohiʻona hoihoi? Hiki, inā i loko o ka pahu i ka mea hana hana, e hele hou i nā lole hou, ka lole a me nā mea hana. Me kēia pēpē eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pāʻaniʻana a hiki i ka kaikamahine ke kūkulu i nā wahi pānaʻi a me ka hoʻomohala i nā manaʻo.
- Hoʻonohonoho no nā pāʻani . Ke ulu neiʻoe i kahi wahine wahine aloha e kōkua i kona mau mākua ma ka lumi kuke? A laila, hāʻawi iā ia i kahi mea hana pāʻani a iʻole ka lumi kuke a nā keiki. Inā makemake kekahi kaikamahine e "hana" i kāna mea hana, a laila e kiʻi i kahi kāpipi'ōkena nona.
- Ka mea hana . ʻO kahi makana no ke kaikamahine no ka makahiki hou o ka makahiki. Hoʻokumu ka mea hoʻolālā o nā keiki i ka hiʻona a me ka noʻonoʻo i ke keiki, e hoʻolālā i nā mākau hana liʻiliʻi o nā lima. Mai nā'āpanaʻeleʻele, e hiki ai i ke kaikamahine keʻohi i kahi hale pēpē, kahi hale mele, a me nā mea'ē aʻe.
- Haʻawi o nā makana . Loaʻa iāʻoe nā manaʻo no nā makana hou o ka New Year no nā kaikamāhine? A laila kūʻai mai i mau makana kūikawā a hoʻokomo i loko o kā ke kīkeʻa'ōpiopio. E makemake ana ke kaikamahine i kekahi ma hope o kekahi e hāʻawi i nā makana, a hiki iāʻoe ke lawe i kēia manawa ma luna o ka pakuhi.