Manaʻoʻia he hikiʻole i ka wahine ke hoʻomaopopo. A manaʻo lākou pēlā,ʻo ia hoʻi, nā kāne. Ma mua o hoʻokahi hanauna o ka poʻeʻepekema i ka pae o ke kālaikalaʻana e ho'āʻo ana e wehewehe i ka makemake maoli o ka wahine. Akā, ma ka manaʻo kāne,ʻaʻole lākou iʻeli i kēlāʻano hoihoi. Ke haohao nei au no ke aha e hana ai kēia? Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hiki i nā wāhine ke hālāwai i nā mea i makemakeʻia e nā kāne, aʻo ka mea āna e makemake ai -ʻaʻole iʻikeʻia.
Ke manaʻo nei mākou e noʻonoʻo i ke kumuhana "ʻO ka makemake o ke kāne, a he kaikamahine maikaʻi paha ma nā maka o nā kāne." ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, makemake nā kānaka a pau eʻike i kekahi wahine akamai, nani, wahine waiwai ma kahi e pili ana iā lākou iho. Akā,ʻo nāʻano i ho'ākākaʻia e pani nuiʻia. Aʻo kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka ma lalo o ka hua'ōlelo "akamai", "nani", "ka waiwai"ʻike i kāna mea pono'ī. ʻAʻole hiki ke anaʻana i kēia mau hiʻohiʻona i ka nui,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻo ka hopena o kahi hoʻohālikelike, e like me ka hiʻoʻana,ʻo nā wāhine akamaiʻelua e hilinai loa i ka mea kumuhana, a me ka hana a kēia wahine i ke ola o ke kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, he pono nāʻano likeʻole o ka makuahine wahine, he hoaaloha wahine. Akā e ho'āʻo mau nei mākou e wehewehe i kahi kaikamahine maikaʻi, ma ka manaʻo o nā kāne a me nā keikikāne .
- ʻO ka hapalua o nā kāne kāne o ko mākou'āina ke hele mua me ka noʻonoʻo o ka wahine. Akā i ka manawa likeʻole,ʻaʻohe makemake nui o nā kānaka he mea inā he kaikamahine a wahine paha e hōʻike i kona kūlanaʻike ma mua o ke kāne maoli. No laila ke unuhi nei mākou i kahi manaʻo maʻalahi: ma o nā maka o nā kāne a me nā kāne, pono ke akamai o ke kaikamahine, akā i ka manawa like ke hūnā.
- Ma ka lua o ka mea nui loa, hoʻonohonoho nā kānaka i kaʻike waho. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea iʻoi aku ka manaʻo ma mua o ka nani wahine. Aʻaʻole mākou e hopohopo i kekahi ke'ōlelo mākou he maikaʻi loa kahi maikaʻi o ka nani wahine no kēlā me kēia kāne a'ōpio paha.
- Ma ke kolu o ka manawa, laweʻia nāʻano pono o nā wāhine i ka manawa hoʻokahi. ʻO ka lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha. A inā ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoi aʻe nā mea āpau a iʻole ka mālie o ke akāka, a laila me ka lokomaikaʻi e hiki ke hoʻonui hou i nā nuances. Manaʻo kekahi e lawa no ka wahine maikaʻi e aloha, aloha a hoʻomanawanui i ka poʻe, aʻike kekahi mau kānaka i ka makemake o ka hoʻokauʻana i ka lawelaweʻana i nā kānaka a me ka mōhai pono'ī.
- ʻO nā maka wahine maikaʻi loa o nā'ōpio he wahine. Ma lalo o kēiaʻano kumu, nā kāne a me nā kānaka e hoʻomaopopo i ka haʻahaʻa, ka nawaliwali o ka wahine, ka lokomaikaʻi, ke aloha, a me nāʻano he nui wale.
- ʻOiai,ʻo ke kaikamahine maikaʻi loa ka mea e pono ai ke aloha a makemakeʻia e ke kāne. Eia hou,ʻo nā meaʻono no nā kāne he nui loa. A no ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ke aloha o ke kanaka i kona mau maka, a laila, ua like like nā wāhine a pau i ke kāne hoʻokahi, aʻo kekahi -ʻaʻole.
- He meaʻoluʻolu ka hoʻonāukiukiʻana o nā meaʻuʻuku i ka hoʻokele waiwai. ʻO ko lākou manaʻo, eia wale nō,ʻaʻole pono ke kālepa kālāʻana o ke kaikamahine, akā he meaʻoluʻolu ia i nā mea i koe o nā pono wahine. Akā, i ka kohoʻana i kahi hoa hoʻokahi o ke ola, kokoke i ka hoʻokele waiwai. No laila, pono nā kaikamāhine e noʻonoʻo inā he kūpaʻa ko lākou'ōpio i kou hikiʻole ke kuke, aʻaʻole makemake paha e hoʻomaʻemaʻe. ʻAʻohe pahaʻo ia eʻike i kona ola e ola nei meʻoe.
- ʻO nā maka wahine maikaʻi loa o nā kāne a me nā kānaka pono ka pono a me ke ahonui.
Ponoʻoe i ka hilinaʻi. Akā, he mea nui eʻole e hele i kahi'ē aʻe aʻaʻole e hōʻike i ka manaʻoʻole i ka mea e hana nei. No laila, e ho'āʻoʻoe e hōʻeha i ke kanaka me nā nīnau, aʻoi aku,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e koi aku iā ia e kākau piha i nā moʻolelo a pau āna i hana ai i ka lā. Akā eʻike i ka hoihoi inā makemakeʻo ia e haʻi iāʻoe pehea kona lā e hele ai. - E hoʻomanaʻo hoʻi no ka lili. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole mākou e'ōlelo iāʻoe e lili i kou kāne i kēlā me kēia wahine hele. Akā, mai makaʻu no ka haʻiʻana i kou mau manaʻo keʻanoʻoe he mea kānalua. Ma muli o ka lili kūpono e pono ai kou pilina.