Hiki i ke kanaka Cancer ke hūnā i kona mau manaʻo, he paʻakikī loa ka weheweheʻana i kāna hana a hoʻomaopopo i kona mau manaʻo pono. Akā, penei keʻano o ke kanaka i aloha me Cancer, hiki keʻike i kekahi mau hiʻohiʻona o kāna hana.
Pehea e hana ai nā aloha e like me Cancers?
No laila, no ka heluʻana i ke aloha o ke kanaka Cancer, e kōkua nā hōʻailona i kēia mau mea:
- E hele anaʻo ia i keʻano haʻahaʻa,ʻano haʻahaʻa me keʻano kupaianaha. Ma keʻano maʻamau, hikiʻole ke Cancer. E nānā aku paha kekahi kanaka iāʻoe i keʻano liʻiliʻi, i kahi pōkole a me ka leoʻole, akā,ʻo kēia mau mea a pau e hōʻike anaʻaʻole ia e pili iāʻoe.
- E ho'āʻo mauʻo ia e kokoke. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kona mau manaʻo no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā e ho'āʻo mau e kōkua, kōkua i kahi manawa paʻakikī, kōkua me ka'ōlelo aʻo nui, ua mākaukauʻo ia e hālāwai meʻoe i kēlā lā i kēia lā mai ka hana, eʻike iāʻoe i ka home. Ma nā mea a pau āna e'ōlelo aiʻaʻoleʻoe he hoaaloha nona wale nō, he maʻalahi loa i ke kanaka e hōʻike iā Raku ma mua o ka haʻiʻana aku i kona aloha.
- E lilo loa i ka lili. He nui nā wāhine, me kaʻikeʻole i ka hana a ke kāpena Cancer, hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi manawa, a makehewa paha. ʻO kēia manaʻo,ʻaneʻane kokokeʻole ia i ka mana,ʻoiai e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻopaʻa i kona lima. Hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻea i ka helu e hoʻomaka ai ke kanaka e hahai i ka hapalua, e nānā i ke kelepona. ʻAʻole loaʻo ia eʻae i ka mea hakakā kokoke iā ia,ʻaʻole loaʻo ia e hūnā i ka huhū a me ka inaina iā ia. No nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻo kēia hana a ke kāne Cancer he mea hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo a he malihini, akā, uaʻikeʻo ia he mea maʻamau loa.
- ʻO ka nānāʻana i nā nānā. Hiki ke hāʻawiʻia aku kahi kanaka aloha i ka maʻi Cancer a me kona mau maka,ʻo kona '' ai'ānai eʻimi wale ana i ka huhū. Hiki iā ia ke lohi a nānā aku i kāna kumuhana o ka hoʻomana,
oiai e ho'āʻo mau ana e nānā i nā maka, me ka manaʻoʻole e hiki iā ia ke hoʻohilahila i ka wahine. I ka manawa maʻamau, hiki i nā maʻi pipili ke nānā aku i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai, a ma kahi hakakā nui , e like me keʻano o ke aloha, nānā lākou i nā maka o ke kanaka. - ʻAʻoleʻo ia e ho'āʻo. Ke hana nei ke kanaka kino i ke aloha e like me ka wahine nane, e ho'āʻo mau ana e hoʻopuni, e ho'āʻo ana e palekana i nā pilikia,ʻoiai inā maʻiʻo ia, a hiki i ka mea hope loa e hūnā aiʻo ia,ʻaʻole e hopohopo i kāna mea i aloha ai. Hiki i ka Man Cancer ke noi i kona hapalua i ka holoʻana o ka lā, pehea kona manaʻo, akā,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e haʻi i kāna mau pilikia,ʻaʻole e koi i kāna mea aloha e hopohopo iā ia.