Pehea e hoʻonele ai i kahi kanaka huhū?

Inā he mau makahiki he nui i hala aku nei, ua manaʻoʻia ka helehelena o ka wahine nui, he mea paʻakikī nāʻaha kūkā maikaʻi o kēia lā e kāhea i nā nawaliwali. Hoʻokomo mākou iā mākou i nā kaʻa, nā'aukana a me nā kiʻi, loaʻa kālā, noho i nā ipo alakaʻi, e pāʻani i ka pôpeka a me ka pāʻani pīkino. Akā, me kēia mau mea a pau, kokoke mākou a pau i nā moeʻuhane huna no ka hālāwaiʻana me kekahi naita ikaika a koa wiwoʻole, nāna e pale mai iā mākou mai nā pilikia a pau o ke ola, hāʻawi i nā pua a me keʻano nui - aloha i kaʻikeʻole. No laila, e like me nā makahiki i hala aku nei,ʻo ka nīnau "Pehea e hōʻemi ai i ke kanaka mai ka noʻonoʻo a lilo iā ia i mea kūikawā a me keʻanoʻole?" Ke hoʻomau nei i ka papahana.

"Ua manaʻoʻia he hiki i ka wahine ke lanakila ma ka hāʻawi waleʻana iā ia i mau mahalo. A pehea e pili ana i nā lālā o ka wahine ikaika? Keʻike nei anei kekahi i nāʻano leʻaleʻa maikaʻi ma hope iho o ka hikiʻana o kou aliʻi e holo meʻoe a hiki i ka hopena o kēia ao? "

Nā hua'ōleloʻelima 5 e hoʻonāukiuki i nā kānaka:

Akā,ʻo kēia mau koho a pau, he maikaʻi, he pane ia i ka nīnau: "Pehea e hoʻowalewale ai i kahi mea aloha?" Akā he aha kāu e hana ai inā i noho pūʻoe me kēia kanaka no kekahi mau makahiki aʻike i nā mea a pau e pili ana i kekahi me kekahi, aʻoi aʻe. Ma mua o ka mea kupaianaha i kēlā hihia?

"Ua mareʻia mākou iʻewalu mau makahiki. I kēia mau lā, ua hoʻomaka au eʻike i ka liloʻana o kā mākou pilina me kāna kāne i mea makaʻala -ʻo ke aloha, ua hala ka nalowale, ua lilo nā mea i mea maʻamau. Akā me kēia a pau, uaʻike au e aloha mākou i kekahi i kekahi. Pehea hou e hoʻonele ai i kahi kāne a huhū a hoʻomaha i ko mākou mau manaʻo? "

ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻoiai ma hope o nā makahiki he nui o ka noho pūʻana, he mea e kāhāhā ai i ko mākou hoa ola, akā, no laila, makemake mākou e hele ma mua o keʻano maʻamau a me ka makemake e hana i kahi mea'ē aʻe. Eia nā alaʻelua, e like me nā wāhine he nui, he maikaʻi loa ia ma iaʻano.

ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia hoʻi e hoʻomanaʻo mau i ka piliʻana o ka pilina o ka hana i nā lā a pau, i hikiʻole ai iā lākou ke loli no ka maikaʻi e ka nalu o kahi kānana kilokilo. ʻO ia kahi ma mua o ka kūʻaiʻana i nāʻuhane e hoʻonele ai i nā kānaka āpau aʻoihana pīpīpika paha,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka manawa e huli i nā kumuhana no nā kamaʻilio a me nā loina likeʻole hou, a ma mua o ka heluheluʻana i nā puke "Pehea e hoʻonele ai i ke kanaka?" E ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i ka manawa o kaʻohana.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, i paneʻia i ka nīnau: "He aha nāʻano o nā wāhine e lapuwale nei?"ʻO ka hapanui o nā mea kūkākūkā o ka kāne ke hopohopoʻole e pane aku: "ʻO ka mea iʻoluʻolu e kamaʻilio aʻaʻole hoʻi i lohi i ka moe." Ka Hopena: e like me kēia mau koi liʻiliʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i ke akua ola, nani a keuʻole no kāu kāne.