Peheaʻoe e makemake ai nā makuahine eʻike i kāna kaikamahine liʻiliʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana i kahi lede wahine, ka mea a nā poʻe a puni e mahalo ai! He kūpono i aʻoʻia, hoʻonaʻauao, kūpono, akahai, hoʻolohe, maikaʻi-i kāheaʻia - ua pili kēia mau mea i nā kānaka me ka huaolelo "lady". Aʻo kēia no ka mea i hoʻohana muaʻia i nā wāhine iʻike wale i ka hanaʻana i ka meaʻai! ʻO ka mea pōʻino, i kēia mau lā maikaʻi maikaʻi, i waena o nā kaikamāhine'ōpio,ʻaʻole i manaʻoʻia heʻano maʻamau. Akā, inā makemake kou makuakāne e hoaaloha me nā keikikāne, e hana like me ka'ōpena maoli, aia ka wā e hoʻoulu ai i kahi wahine pono'ī mai ona aku.
ʻO ka wahine mai kahi moe
ʻO keʻano kūpono a me ka maʻalahi e hānai i kahi keikikāne liʻiliʻi mai kahi kaikamahine liʻiliʻi he hiʻohiʻona pono'ī. I loko o nā makahiki mua o ke ola,ʻo ka makuahine ka mana e kū like ai ke keiki. ʻO ka hoʻonaʻauao o ka pēpē he mea likeʻole nā mea a pau e hoʻopuni ana iā ia, i keʻano, keʻano o ka hana a me keʻano. Inā manaʻo ka makua he mea pono e nānā pono a maikaʻi i kaʻili wale ma waho o ka hale, e paʻakikī ka weheweheʻana i ka pēpē, no ke aha e mālama ai i nā kānāwai o ke olakino, e nānā i keʻano o nā kapa, nā lauoho, a me nā kui. Manaʻo pinepine nā mākua i nā mea nani i ke kaumaha, a no ka hale kahiko o ka hale me nā puka, e iho mai i lalo nā'ōpū mai ka wai aiʻole ke kokoleka. ʻAʻole,ʻaʻole kēia manaʻo ma ka home e ponoʻoe eʻaʻahu i ke kaikamahine i ka lole akamai, akāʻo ka lole hana i ka hale he maʻemaʻe ia.
Mai ka wā'ōpiopio mai, ua maʻa iā ia i nā kapa wahine,ʻaʻole ia he mea hūnā i kēia mau lā i nā wāhine he nuiʻaʻole e puka i waho o ko lākou mau kapa, no kaʻikeʻole i ka lole a me nā loleʻaʻohe mea e hōʻoluʻolu. Eʻoliʻoli kahi mea liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi i kaʻaʻahu i nāʻaʻahu nani, aʻo ka maʻamauʻo ia ke ola. Zakolochki, nā lauoho nani, nā hoopa, nā puaʻa - he kaikamahine no ka mea hoihoi wale nō!
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo, he mea nui ka nānā, akā,ʻaʻole nā mea nuiʻole. Eia kekahi laʻana, ka'ōlelo a ke kaikamahine. Aʻaʻole i pili i nā hua'ōlelo pupule, kahi iʻole eʻaeʻia! ʻO nā kūlana maikaʻiʻole o nā kānaka'ē aʻe, ka'ōlelo hōʻino, a me ka'ōlelo hōʻino -ʻo kēia ka mea eʻaeʻole ai ka wahine wahine iā ia iho. ʻO ia ke kumu e ponoʻole ai i kahi kaikamahine e hoʻolohe i kēlā mau'ōlelo mai ka mom, ke kupunawahine, nā kaikuahine. I ka wā kamaliʻi, ua hoʻoikaika wikiwikiʻia kekahi hana, no laila e hahai nā mākua i kā lākou'ōlelo pono'ī.
E ka Lede -ʻo ke kūʻokoʻa, ka wahine, ka hilinaʻi pilikino, ka lokomaikaʻi, ka leʻaleʻa, ka lokomaikaʻi. Akā, he hikiʻole ke uhaki i keʻano o ke kaikamahine! Inā he paʻa a loeaʻo ia, a laila,ʻo ka hana o ka makuahine ke kōkua i ke kaikamahine eʻike i nā palena e pono ai ke nohoʻana he kaikamahine, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahi e hoʻolālā iā ia iho. E wehewehe i ka mea liʻiliʻi i ka nānā aku i kahiʻanoʻoluʻolu a maikaʻi i ka hana hoʻowahāwahā,ʻaʻole ia he mea! Eʻikeʻoleʻia ka nani!
E hōʻuluʻulu i nā hualoaʻa
Uaʻikeʻoe i kāu keiki ma mua o kekahi mea'ē aʻe! ʻAʻohe kānāwai maʻamau e hiki ke kōkua i ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i kahi wahine mai ka pēpē mai, akā ma muli o kēia mau'ōlelo aʻo, ponoʻoe e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i kāu hana:
- hiʻohiʻona pilikino;
- ka hoʻouluʻana i kekahi hōʻailona o ka wahine male;
- hana mau i ka hana a ke keiki;
- ka mālamaʻana i nā rula mālama ola (i nā lole, a me nā mea'ē aʻe);
- e hoʻonui ana i ka'ōlohelohe o ke keiki;
- nā kiʻi maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole hoʻi e hoʻolohe i ka poʻe e'ōlelo nei i nā manawa o ka naita koa wiwoʻole a me nā wāhine aloha i kahiko aku nei! ʻO ka maikaʻi, ka hānai maikaʻiʻana, ka paneʻana, ka mahalo i nā mea'ē aʻe, e mahalo nuiʻia ka nani o ka nani. Aʻo ka aloha makua, ke nānā a mālama aku, he mau mea kōkua maikaʻi i ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana o kekahi kaikamahine wahine maikaʻi.
ʻO ka pāpāna kekahi no nā mākua a me ka hānaiʻana i kahi keiki iki.