Aia nāʻohana a me nā kuleana o kēlā me kēiaʻohana no kēlā me kēia hoa o kaʻohana. Aia kekahi i ka hoʻoponopono i loko o ka hale, kahi meaʻai ka meaʻai, kahi mea e lawe ana i ka palala, a hele kekahi i ka hale kūʻai me ka papa inoa o nā huahana. ʻOiai, ma ka hana mua o ka hanaʻana i kaʻohana, ua kau kēia mau hana a pau i luna o ka wahine,ʻaʻohe mea hikiʻole ke hana.
ʻO nā hana o nā kāne ma kaʻohana he mea'ē aʻe. Akā,ʻaʻole ia heʻano maikaʻi ke ola o nā kānaka. Hōʻike i ka mahalo, e nā wāhine aloha.
I nā kāne no kahi memo
ʻO nā kuleana kāne ma kaʻohana e hilinaʻiʻia ma ka hanaʻana i nā kūlana e mālamaʻia ai nā wāhine a me nā keiki. ʻAʻole kēia manaʻoʻo ka hoʻokomoʻiaʻana o kekahi puka hoʻokipa a me nā hoʻonani ma nā puka makani. ʻO kahiʻohana i loaʻa ai ka waiwai waiwai, nā nohona maikaʻi, ka nohona aloha ma waena o nā wāhine, a me nā keiki hauʻoli e holo puni i ka hale - heʻohana palekana kēia. Ma muli o ka pono o kahi kanaka (ʻaʻole au makemake i ka hua'ōlelo "pono"):
- e lilo i poʻo o kaʻohana, i mea kōkua. ʻO ka hoʻoholoʻana a me ka hoʻolakoʻana i nā kālā kālā o kaʻohana, he hana kūpono a paʻakikī ia;
- e lilo i "kanaka". ʻO ka wahine e noho i loko o kaʻohana,ʻo kāna hana e pili ana i nā hana a ke kanaka e hana ai i kāna wahine. No ka nānāʻole a mālamaʻole i ka wahine, hikiʻole i kāna kāne ke hana i nā hoʻoholo a he "kāne",ʻo ka makemakeʻole e lilo i poʻo o kaʻohana, e hāʻawi iā ia i kahi wahineʻehaʻehaʻeleʻele e lawe i nā mea he nui i loko o kona lima iho, me kāna kāne;
- e lilo i "makua". ʻO nā hana a ka pope i loko o kaʻohana, ua pili ponoʻole i ka hoʻokumuʻiaʻana o ka mana ma nā maka o nā kamaliʻi. E lilo i hōʻailona kūpono no ke keiki a me ka wā e hiki mai ana "ʻo ka manaʻoʻiʻo i nā kāne" no kāna kaikamahine,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻalahi. ʻO ka mālamaʻana i ke keiki mai nā lā mua o kona olaʻana, aʻo a aloha i kāna keiki he kuleana maʻamau ia o nā mākua. Pono ka makua e hāʻawi i ka manawa keiki a hōʻike i ka hopohopo, no ka mea,ʻoi aku kaʻoluʻolu o ka loheʻana mai ke keiki "dad" ma mua o "ka makua".
Nā wāhine, mālama i nā kāne a he mea hoʻoikaika iā lākou.