ʻO keʻano o ka nohona i ka makuahonowai wahine he mea hōʻeha ia no nā moʻolelo, nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni a me nā moʻolelo mai nā moʻolelo wahine. ʻO ka hopena,ʻo ia ke holomua ma mua o ka hopenaʻole o ka lele i nā wāhine e komo i ka rubric o nā hoʻolaha "e lawe i kahi hana weliweli." Akā, hiki i kēia mau mea a pau, ināʻaʻole eʻaeʻia, e emi iho ka hopena o ka hui likeʻana. Ma keʻano laulā, heluhelu a hoʻonāukiukiʻia e kā mākou aʻo i ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i kou makuahōnōwai. E nānā!
1. ināʻaʻoleʻoe he makuahōnōwai makuahine i kēia manawa, akā i kēia manawa, e wikiwiki pahaʻoe e kūkā e pili ana i kāu e hiki mai ana me kāu poʻe pono - e hoʻomaopopo i ka mālamalama loa i ka pilina ma hope o ka maleʻana, i kāu mau hana, a me keʻano o "nā malihini" i kou home: nā pono, nā mana a,ʻo ka mea nui loa, kahi o ka laina. Ma mua o kaʻae muaʻana, e palekanaʻoe i nāʻeha, nā haʻalulu, nā waimaka a me nā hemo.
2. I ka wā e nīnauʻoleʻia ai ka nīnau no ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i ka makuahōnōwai o ka hoʻonāukiuki, akā,ʻo kāu moeʻuhane weliweli loa ia, a laila, lilo kāu kāne i mea kōkua nui. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe he manawa, na kona "makuahine" e lawe iā ia ma konaʻaoʻao. E hoʻonohonoho i kahi kūkā kamaʻilio me ka noi aku iā ia e pane i nā nīnau:
- ʻO wai ke kuleana no ka noho maluhiaʻana o kouʻohana - aiaʻoe me kāu kāne a me kou makuahōnōwai wahine paha?
- ʻO wai ka haku o kou hale -ʻoʻoe aʻo kou makuahine paha?
- He aha nā kuleana a kou makuahōnōwai wahine e noho ai i kou home, eʻoi aku kona mana ma mua o nā makana i kāna moʻopuna a me nā huiʻana i nā ahiahi, i kou ola a me kou pilina ?
- he aha ka mea e 'ae ai iāʻoe e hana, i mea e kau ai nā helu a pau ma luna o ka "a" me ka makuahōnōwai wahine?
He meaʻole ka nīnauʻana i kēia mau nīnau a pau ināʻoe e noho me kona makuahine ma kona hale. E hoʻomaopopo, he wahine ka wahine i nā makahiki a pau, he wahine ia, nāna e mālama i kona mau'āina. ʻAʻole ponoʻo ia e waiho iāʻoe i loko o ka lumi kuke, hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kona keʻena, e aʻo a hōʻino i kāna mau mea,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo wale nō, akā, i nā kauoha a me nā kauoha, a pēlā aku ma kēiaʻano ... Ma kou'āina wale nō kāu kuleana me ia e hakakā wale nō, aia wale nō he malihini ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia he wahine wahine hoʻokūkū. Ma lalo o kahi haleʻeluaʻaʻohe hale wahineʻelua.