ʻAʻole hiki ke maʻalahi i kahi manawa e loaʻa ai kahi makana i kahi kanaka, keʻoleʻoe i noho lōkahi ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki a ua manaʻoʻia ua hāʻawiʻia nā mea a pau. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo inā ua haʻi kokeʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo ma ka makana a heluhelu wale paha i nā koho he 10, he makana ia e hana ai i kāna kāne i kona lā hānau.
He aha kaʻu makana e hāʻawi aku ai i kaʻu kāne no kona lā hānau?
No laila, koho mākou i ka mea e leʻaleʻa ai i kāu mea i aloha ai, mai nā koho aʻe:
- ʻO ka meaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka leʻaleʻa i ke kanaka,ʻaʻole ia he paʻakikī. ʻAʻole pono nā kāne e like me ke koho o nā wāhine nāwaliwali, heʻokoʻa i loko o kaʻauʻana ke keiki mau. A eia keʻano o ke kūʻaiʻana i kekahi mea hana'ē aʻe a iʻole, e like paha, me ka hoʻonaniʻana i ka helicopter e hoʻomeleo i ka leka.
- Inā he kanaka kūpono ke kāne, a laila e makemakeʻo ia i kahi makana ma keʻano o kahi pahu hōʻailona hōʻailona. A iʻole paha paha makemakeʻo ia i nā mea hāpai waʻa?
- ʻO kahi kanaka i loaʻa kahi hoʻokipa maʻamau , kiʻi i kahi makanaʻaʻole paʻakikī. ʻO ka mea maʻalahi loa e nīnau iā iaʻo ia ke makemake eʻikeʻo ia he makana. Malia paha he mea pono ke kōkua no kahi kamepiula a iʻole he kaʻa, kekahi mea no ka lawaiʻa, he kiʻi pena, a pēlā aku. ʻAe, inā makemakeʻoe e kāohi i ka lā hānau no kāu kāne, e hilinaʻi i kāuʻike a koho i nā mea'ē aʻe i kūʻole i loko o kāna mea hana. Ma kahi hua'ōlelo, e lilo ka makana i ke ao holoʻokoʻa.
- ʻOiai lākou e'ōlelo nei, ʻaʻole hiki ke hāʻawiʻia nā pahi , akā, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e like me ka hoʻomana kiʻiʻole, a laila,ʻo ka loaʻaʻana, e like me ka līlī o Swiss a me ka pahi hōʻiliʻili,ʻaʻole ia e haʻalele iā ia. A ponoʻo ia e hana ma kaʻoihana aʻaʻoleʻo ia e puni i nā mea e pili ana i keʻano -ʻo kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka i loko o kaʻauwai he mea loaʻa kālā,ʻo ia hoʻi he makemake i ka pahi.
- Inā he mau hola wale nō koe i koe ma mua o ka hoʻonaniʻana, aʻaʻoleʻoe i hoʻoholo i ka makana, e mahalo i ka loaʻa o kēlā makana kūikawā i kāu kāne ma kou lā hānau, e like me kahi puke noi. ʻO kēia mau lālani i kēia lā,ʻoi aku ka nui ma mua o ka wā maʻamau. No laila,ʻo kāu hanaʻo ia e kūkulu me kou mau lima i keʻano o ka puke, e hāʻawi kēlā me kēiaʻaoʻao i ka wahine i ka mea pono i kekahi mea'ē aʻe (e hoʻomaha i ka hui kanaka, e hoʻonohonoho i ka ahiahi o ka nānāʻana i ka pīpeka, ka papa o kahi meaʻai punahele, a me nā mea'ē aʻe). ʻO kaʻoihana o iaʻano i hanaʻia ma keʻano scrapbooking. He waiwai nui kēlā makana i loko ona iho,ʻo ia he pepa maoli pepa.
- ʻAʻole hiki ke kūʻai waleʻia ka makana, akā, pili pū kekahi i kahi kākalo maʻamau a iʻole ka mea hana i hanaʻia e ka lima,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma waho o ka home, e hoʻomanaʻo iāʻoe.
- ʻO ke kanakaʻaʻole e pili i kaʻano o nā nondrinkers, e mahaloʻo ia i ka huele o ka mea inuʻona maikaʻi - rum, brandy a whiskey paha.
- Inā loaʻa kahi moe i kahi kāne,ʻo ka lā hānau ka manawa kūpono loa no ka hoʻokōʻana. E hoʻokuʻu i kahi lele, kahi ahi e hōʻike ai, he haʻawina ma kahi kaʻahanaʻoi loa, aiʻole he huakaʻi hele i ke alaleʻa lele aiʻole ka peepeʻe - makemake pono nā makemake!
- Aka, i ka manawa e "mele mele ana" nā kālā, aʻaʻole he kālā no ka waiʻona waiwaiʻawaʻawa paha a iʻole i ka'alikaiʻoluʻolu, eʻoluʻolu i kāu kāne me kekahi meaʻoi aʻe -
Hiki iā ia keʻaʻai maikaʻi a iʻole he diary hou. A ma waho aʻe o kahi hōʻikeʻano haʻahaʻa, e hoʻonohonoho i kaʻahaʻaina aloha i ke ahiahi me ka hahaiʻana. - ʻO kekahi koho koho kālā no kahi lā hānau lā o kāu kāne aloha i hōʻikeʻia he polokalamu kamepiula ma ka hōʻailona o ka hōʻike hōʻikeʻike me kāna mau kiʻi likeʻole. E koho i nā kiʻi maikaʻi loa mai ka waihona waihonaʻohana, nā mele pololei - a ma kekahi o nā papahana kūikawā, e hoʻouka i kahi pahuhoho, kahi e lilo i makana nui loa. Hiki ke hoʻounaʻia ma ka meli a hāʻawiʻia paha i ka home.
