ʻAʻole pono nā wahine a pau e kapaʻia he akamai, akā, hiki iāʻoe ke lilo i hoʻokahi, akā peheaʻoe eʻike ai ma lalo nei.
He wahine akamai - he aha konaʻano?
ʻO ka mea e hoʻonani wale i mua o kona alo,ʻo ia keʻano o ke kanakaʻono . Akā,ʻaʻole ia he manaʻo ke nānā waleʻiaʻo ia, heleʻoleʻo ia me ka'ōleloʻoleʻana he wahine akamai a maikaʻi ka wahine nani. ʻO ia ke kuko a me ka mahalo i nā mea he lehulehu.
E kākau i nā hiʻohiʻona nui o kahi wahine wahine:
- ʻO kaʻili maikaʻi i hoʻouluʻia, e hoʻoulu ana i kaʻulu hou;
- he wahine mālama i ka meaʻai;
- ke heleʻana o kahi'ōmole maikaʻi;
- ka lauoho lauoho me ka loaʻaʻole o kahi hōʻailona o ka haʻalulu a iʻole ka'ōwili;
- lima lima;
- ka leʻaleʻa no ka manawa a me kahi;
- nā'ōmaʻomaʻo maʻamau;
- nā kukui mālamalama;
- ke kūlana kūpono.
Ke hoʻokumuʻana i kahi kiʻi o kahi wahine wahine
- E hoʻonui i ka nani i kou helehelena me ke kōkua o nā lole e hoʻonui ai i kou nani, e wehe ana i ka pale o kou honua i loko, keʻano.
- E mālama i ka mea hoʻoponopono, a iʻole konaʻano maikaʻi. Inā kānaluaʻoe i kou hiki ke hana i ke kiʻi kūpono, e noi i nā lawelawe i kahi mea hanaʻoihana hanaʻoihana.
- ʻO kahi kiʻi hoʻokahi wale nō o kou ola. E lilo kouʻano hiʻona mai ka mea nui i waiwai nui ma loko. ʻOiaʻiʻo, e loiloi kahi malihini iāʻoe, ma ka mea mua, no nāʻike o waho, akāʻo ke kūlana o kahi wahine wahine e ho'āʻo ma hope o ka maikaʻi o ka'ōlelo a me kaʻole o nā hemahema, ua piha ka'ōpū i loko o ka hoʻoponoponoʻana, aʻo ka kamaʻilioʻana meʻoe e lawe mai i ka mea e hoʻopoinaʻoleʻia e ka mea hakakā.
- I ka hanaʻana i kēia kiʻi, he nui ka hana o ka makahiki. ʻO nā kaikamāhine paha e hiki ke hoʻomālamalama i ka hopena o ke mele. Inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi wahine, a laila ka mea maikaʻi loa, e nānā ana i ka nohona maikaʻi a he mea paʻakikī keʻike i kona mau makahiki.