Ināʻoe i kaʻawale me kahi kanaka wale nō, a laila,ʻaʻole he mea kupanaha kona helehelena ma ka moeʻuhane, no ka mea, he mau mea hoʻomanaʻo wale nō ia no nā pili o ka wā kahiko. E wehewehe i ka mea e pono ai ka moe wale no i ka manawa i ka lōʻihi loaʻaʻole he pilina me ke aloha mua. No kēia, he pono e hoʻomanaʻo i nā kiko kiko'ī i hiki ke hiki i ka papa.
He aha ka mea e aloha ai ke aloha mua?
Ma kekahi o nā puke moe, aia kaʻike eʻikeʻia ana kaʻike o ia pō i keʻano o nā pilina pili koke mai ka manawa i hala aku nei, e hoʻomanaʻo iā ia iho a, paha, makemake ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻihoʻi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi e ulu ai ka pilina me ke kāne'ē, me he mea lāʻaʻole he kaʻawaleʻana, e hōʻike ana i ka hopena o nā manaʻo no kēia kanaka. Ināʻike mau ka mea aloha i mua, a laila,ʻo ka mea moe i ke ola maoli e hana pinepine i nā hana hewa. Pēlā nō, hāʻawiʻia e ka manaʻo noʻonoʻoʻole nā'ōlelo aʻo he pono pono ke hoʻololi i nā hana a kekahi. Aia kekahi koho'ē aʻe, no ke aha iʻike pinepineʻia ai ka hiwahiwa aloha, he hōʻailona kēia no ka hikiʻole i ka wahine ke hoʻokuʻu i nā mea i hala, a he kūlana maikaʻiʻole kēia i ke ola maoli. ʻO ka manawa kēia e hoʻomaha a neʻe i mua.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine aloha mua no ka wahine i haʻaleleʻia,ʻo ia ka puʻuwai o ka pilikia e pili ana i nā maʻi, nā waiwai a me nā keiki. ʻO nā pilikia o ka maʻi, ke kū neiʻo ia e kamaʻilio me kekahi hoa mua. Keʻike nei mākou i keʻano o ka moe mua ma kahi pilina hou i kahi hōʻailona maikaʻi, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia, e hōʻike ana i kahi hoʻomaha maikaʻi me kaʻohana. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea aloha iʻike muaʻia ma ka haʻaluluʻana, aia ia he kūlana kiʻekiʻe loa ka pono o kēia hoa. Ponoʻia e nānā pono i ka mea i waeʻia.
No ke aha 'oe e hiamoe ai e pili kokoke i kahi mea aloha?
ʻO ka moe ma ka moeʻuhane me ke kanaka i hala aku nei mai kou ola aku, e hōʻike ana e kokoke koke ana e hālāwai me nā leo o ka wā i hala. ʻO ka kiss Farani me ka mea aloha i mua, he mea hoʻohāhā ia eʻikeʻia i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ʻAʻole i hōʻike ka buke moe i keʻano maikaʻiʻoleʻole.
No ke aha he mea e hakakā ai me kekahi kanaka'ē?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi āu e hakakā ai me nā mea kahiko i'ōlelo mai i nā loli i ke ola e hiki mai ana i kēia mua aku. ʻAʻoleʻoe e hopohopo, no ka mea he maikaʻi nā loli. Inā loaʻa ka hōʻeha i kahi hakakā ma ka moeʻuhane - he hōʻailona kēia e pili ana i ka pilina me ke kanaka e kū nei i nā pilikia nui, i ka hopena o nā mea e pili ana i ka huā.